Marriage is oppression of MEN by the Patriarchy!

Disclaimer: I’m a student of the works that explain wonderfully why Black families are done with, in the USA. Unfortunately, the truth hurts my people, because people don’t want to take accountability for their hand in the systematic destruction we have faced, post-Civil Rights Era. Our people have become consumed by sisterhood propagandist nonsense and what I’m going to talk about today is not misogyny, it’s FACT and issues that are heavily documented, in many scholar’s works, such as this in “Black Male-Black Female Conflict: Individually Caused and Culturally Nurtured”. It’s from the Journal of Black Studies and was create in 1984! It’s not hate, we have been studied since early 1900s, STUDIED BY ECONOMISTS, BEHAVIORAL SCIENTISTS and SOCIOLOGISTS. One such major revelation was that US Government policies destroyed Black progress, and many Black scholars spoke to this case, such as Thomas Sowell, at the “FAIRMOUNT CONFERENCE“. I agree with that little bit of Sowell, but his is wildly off base with much of what he said to back white supremacist talking points. So we knew we would get here, but the weakest and more selfish of us, ignored all the signs because they think they alone have all the answers – and all of our current day issues are due to these people’s failure to produce for our communities. Today, unfortunately, what we learned from such studies, falls on deaf ears with Blacks, in particular the females, as 90% of all US Black single mothers are below the age of 21. We also know, that this is the reason foreign born Blacks always fare better than native Blacks, because those foreigners come in with culture, values and lack of sisterhood propaganda poisoning leading to stability of families due to bond of marriage and commitment to family. THAT is not a “Black” thing, unfortunately, that’s a foreign Black people things, and those two groups are not the same. American Blacks, have people who think they can be single mothers and have delusion that whatever money they scrape together will get themselves and kids out of poverty, which statistically is highly incorrect. It’s “Black” to think a single mother household produces kids who escape poverty, and this is TAUGHT to American Blacks, and this poison is missed by foreign Blacks, thus they have a better change to be successful, such as Nigerian Americans. Anyone else, if they believe in sisterhood propaganda, that statistically create perpetual poverty for generations after. A lot of people point back to slavery, but in 1950s and 60s, Blacks had the highest marital rate in USA, although poor and without basic human rights. After that, due to constant comparison in stats against mediocre white people, self hate is created and inferiority complexes are birthed in Blacks. I find my people are so ashamed that we were not the winners of slavery, that we don’t want to acknowledge that we were oppressed but we are don’t need to be victims stuck with victimhood mentalities. So much so, to cope, our people are pushing supremacist ideology on our own people, peddling victimhood mentalities and sisterhood propaganda that made its way into normal Black life, and that destroyed us. Most people have worked hard to assimilate and to look “legit” to popular society, and this group especially have come up with coping mechanisms that create revisionist histories of our past, for the past 50 years, and they want to imagine an America where there was never any oppression of Blacks – and the people I’m referencing here, are BLACKS. You talk to them about these serious issues, they get tribal and offer up nothing but anecdotal evidence/coping mechanism propagandas in the form of “I feel like …” rather than informed fact-based counter arguments or talking points. Why? Because they don’t need to correct their behavior and mentality if they think they’re winning (laws, policies and perception are sexist in their favor leading to reward), even at the expense of the race. When you present them with facts, they don’t want to see it, they want to imagine something different so they look better, and none of them were even BORN when most of what I mention today, even occurred; however, they don’t do any research, they’re willfully ignorant so that they can show allegiance to propagandist corners. Being willfully ignorant is a strategy of propagandists. One such work I studied, which perfectly outlined the demise I reference, was done by a former Black female congresswoman, Eleanor Holmes Norton, who perfectly outlined in 1985, what many today carelessly call men anti-female for even discussing. I’ve shown Eleanor’s work to people, as a Black scholar and former congresswoman, and then they complain that SHE is offending them – and the offended group is Black too. If you turn off your propaganda chip for a second, and read, and allow one of our thorough Black women to outline most of what you’ll read in the rest of this piece, you may be able to get past your propagandist programming. READ HER PUBLICATION “RESTORING THE TRADITIONAL BLACK FAMILY“, and realize that she is saying that our women used to care about marriage and family, but that’s up until outsiders’ propaganda promised them money to abandon their families, which many willingly did. Norton said clearly that the ghetto problem are all traced back to a “poor, female-headed household“, which is not an insult to women, it was social commentary overall, not sexist from another Black woman. These household structure is not the nuclear family, which statistically produces poor results in offspring, per MANY well studied reports in every country. The way those households are run is how you produce men like Andrew Tate and Kanye West, men raised in the very “poor, female-headed households” that Norton speaks of, with people who deserted their wife duties to remove the kids from the father, to go raise those kids in poverty. Kanye’s mother felt it was better to be a single mother living in crime ridden Chicago ghettos, risking her life and her son’s life, so she could be free of her vows to be a mate, keeping a boy from his father, due to her selfish pride. Now there is a grown Kanye, a mentally unstable, antisemite, self-hating, anti-Black female, father with daddy issues complaining his wife did the same to him. As an adult, Kanye admits that his mother’s propaganda destroyed him, saying “MY DAD DIDN’T HAVE MONEY OR A PUBLIC VOICE WHEN MY MOM DESTROYED ME AND HIS RELATIONSHIP,” he wrote.“I DO THIS FOR EVERY PARENT ON EITHER SIDE WHO’S KIDS FUTURES ARE BEING ONE SIDEDLY CONTROLLED. I DON’T EVEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO GET ANGRY AS A FATHER WITHOUT BEING CALLED ERATIC.” How did he prevent this in his own life? He would escape this by getting with former porn star Kim Kardashian. 🤡 Now, his ex wife has his kids on the internet MOCKING HIM, knowing his unstable characteristics and sad history. Disgusting! How screwed up will his kids be in the future? 🫵🏽🤡 Who can trust marriage due to the number of deserters? Norton’s research is still correct, in 2023, and many men and women, from our culture, know this, which heavily impacts their decision on whether or not to marry and/or have kids. People know this, but HATE when we point it out to ourselves that we are screwed today, and other people know this- which is my problem, someone’s got the rest of the population blaming MEN like for for the whole destruction, which I’m going to defend against today. What Norton overlooked, on purpose, was the propaganda’s machine to destroy the institution of marriage, EVERYWHERE, and how that is destroying Black families, and how it CREATES a disproportionate amount of Andrew Tate’s and Kanye Wests by creating parents who don’t know the first thing about raising boys to men! Today, our ladies say that we Black men, do not defend them, and I’m quite confused about this, because defending our ladies, who are part of our people overall, is how we got all of the rights we have, as a people, in the USA. Off of the back and deaths of a lot of Black men, and women, most “minorities” in the USA now have Civil Rights. So when I hear such scathing claims, which I never in my lifetime have heard until current times, I know that there are 3rd parties involved, with propaganda aimed at disrupting and destroying the Black community, by using our women to destroy our men, in plain sight. This is a common strategy used throughout history, by colonizers, and it’s always been highly effective to destabilize a nation. The strategy is to bait them with free/easy money, give them more opportunity than even Black men and other minorities of all ethnicities, and cater to them in issues voted for in politics, which mostly equates to all of the above, mainly for our women. This has to come in exchange for giving up a core principle of yours (culture, family stability, independence) for the benefits given, and if you take it, the conqueror knows they can manipulate you later, for their hidden agenda. After being rewarded, your allegiance will be to whomever gave you everything for free, and you’ll hate MEN because you’re up and the are not benefiting from any of the gifts given This is where we are TODAY. Police use the same strategy, to offer someone the interrogate food, drinks, whatever, to pacify them, in order to manipulate them into snitching or confessing. Many manipulators do this, you’ve seen in many times but don’t recognize it. Check this, manipulation tactic to take down exploit wives to get the husband . This is human hacking, and it’s what’s being done to my people. We are in a new time, where there is a war of Black men, directly with a divide and conquer strategy in mind, manipulating our women into hating us, and to a point where all statistics and historical fact, which we can all prove, gets thrown out the window, in favor of overly emotional hate speech, that has lead to a huge divide in our community, and is PROFITED ON by 3rd parties who get to sit back and watch our chaos. Destroy the warriors, then the entire people are destroyed! Black turmoil is a USA exported product today, in movies, music and reading publications, and many people are profiting off of this evil, and in many cases, the efforts are spearheaded by our own women! The strategy to get money to enrich individuals ourselves, usurps the strategy to build our communities and families, and 3rd parties have returned to this strategy that began to take roots, in the 1960s, to undermine our Civil Rights progress, and it had GREAT SUCCESS. Since our people are such idiot revisionists of history, it’s time to set the record straight for everyone, with PROOF, of an orchestrated lynching of my community, using our women to drive us all over cliffs, while masking this choreographed destruction under the guise of empowerment of HALF of our community, which our people are happily complicit in. Our people are consumed by ideology that destroyed the population, making us very selfish, which in the end, doesn’t work out for you when you’re OLD and nobody likes you. We used to be a community, and we’re trained to NOT be a community, thus we have come apart, like the rest of America. To be honest, the sisterhood propaganda created Andrew Tate! His mother some poor lady who was married to Emory Tate, a Black Chess player and US Government employee, who was a good man, and his mother decided to take his kids away from him, out of the USA, to go live in the UK as an empowered, propaganda poisoned, single mother of 3! We call that KIDNAPPING, in laws today, even if you left the state and went to another state, but she got that off with no penalty. She went to UK to continue to be a dinner lady, making pennies, struggling! 👏🏽 This forced her sons to be son-husbands that have to take care of their mother, which they did, which is why Tate went to make money. You see, the man who Tate says is a loser who is broke and can’t support a woman thus he does not respect them, IS HIS DAD! He hates his Black father because his mother took them away from his father, which is what sisterhood propaganda does, makes you hate the man for actions of the woman. He also hates his mother, for being consumed with the propaganda, to make her think she could cut it on her own in ghettos of UK instead of being in a family. THAT is the problem with Tate, he woke up and realized that his mother made a huge mistake, and nobody coached these kids mentally, to help get over such as removing the kids from the dad and going to an entirely different country and culture. Tate is recorded saying this and mentioned how abusive she was due to being poor and being stuck with her bad decision. Tate’s backstory is classic kids who never get proper reconciliation after divorces and not being able to see their dads! Thanks propagandists winning, in spite of the death of the family structure and mental health for the kids. Today, men don’t want to be Tate’s dad, it’s a very scary scenario to have your kids suffering and you cannot do a damn thing about it because someone went full propagandist. People don’t know how to spot propagandists who destroy my community and culture values, but here are a few way to spot propagandists in action below:

I would never insult our women, this piece in defense of good Black men who are upset that our most progressive women, who could help rebuild our communities, have left EVERYONE to die, due to selfishness core of the propagandist agenda. They’re been weaponized against our community, and we cannot afford these “divestors”. It’s one thing to reject a role of wanting to be wife or mother, which is anyone’s right and I would prefer someone say that, but it’s another thing to make your sisterhood propaganda solely focused on destruction of men, because you’re a hate group that is offending men now, rather than a group seeking equality that already exists. When hatred is masquerading as empowerment, and it’s pushing men out of schools, employment or just public life, and you celebrate that, then you’re admitting you’re a nihilist who wants to destroy Western culture. Let’s call a spade a spade, sisterhood propagandists are NIHILISTS! I’d much rather have people admit this, than to pretend they are about empowerment. I am a victim of the propaganda that has destroyed my community, from a youth, to this day, and it’s time to call out this nonsense, because modern idiots just make up narratives that have no historical basis, thus you will find many links to REAL DATA, from reputable sources, and from women themselves, and not propaganda, to educate you. I want my community back, I want to build like these other communities have been allowed to build, and I’m robbed of this opportunity by propagandists. I’m tired of being blamed for all the ills of the Black community when I’ve not contributed to ANY of it, in any way, but I’m constantly attacked by our women, in these modern times, and I point out how they are complicit in it, not me. You know what men they need to go focus hate on, justifiably, the ones they made popular, the ones they desire the most, and the ones who are the worst stereotypes. Who do they want? This is the Black man that most women are going for and complaining about, womanizing, thug-rappers negative Black male stereotypes, sex-addict long pipe slingers; yet, most women want that dummy, including 80 year old CHER, 70 year old Madonna, and 50 year old Thandy Newton, and not a free-thinking mature, masculine male. I see this happening a lot in normal civilian life and it annoys me, because progressive women won’t stop blaming the rest of us, who have morals and family values, for these idiots’ choice in men and their lack of interest in Marriage! Instead of search for men of value to marry, that’s NOT what our women are into, and someone needs to ADMIT THIS, and show responsibility, rather than blaming our men. These women promote these men who are raised by single mothers who never learn to magically be MEN, after they’ve been ripped from homes or born to cool/thug/loser men. Who’s supposed to teach these boys in those homes to be functioning men in society? Someone filled with the propaganda and under government control? Sister propagandists create the very men they hate! THIS IS NOT A BLACK PEOPLE ISSUE, THIS IS A “PROGRESSIVE FEMALE” ISSUE THAT IS PERVASIVE THROUGH THE WESTERN WORLD, which benefits SOME people, but is highly destructive when copied by POOR PEOPLE who can’t afford to subscribe to it! It’s caused many to become highly defensive due to their failure, and as a coping mechanism, they just make up outrageous standards for men, that will never get them who they claim they desire. Don’t take my word for it, allow 100 WOMEN TO TELL YOU THEMSELVES WHY THEY AREN’T BEING CHOSEN THEN UNDERSTAND WHO IS THE REAL PROBLEM, LIKE HERE! No hate, all love, FOR MY PEOPLE, but it’s time to set the record straight, from someone who didn’t kill anyone, didn’t sell drugs, doesn’t have a rap album coming, doesn’t womanize, doesn’t have children, never married, and who doesn’t subscribe to the negative stereotypes of his people! Other cultures and ethnicities would think that’s the perfect candidate to be a father, and this is the basis for this piece today- me getting hate from older white people because they believe the negative stereotype of Black men, because they see our progressive women saying this in print, in movies, songs, etc. Our progressives joined the white supremacist train, and these people were talking to me like I’m the man our ladies are publicly on the news complaining about! That’s highly offensive to Black men and I’m going to outline exactly why. It’s time for people like ME to tell the right narrative about who WE are as a people, and not to let the sisterhood propaganda push polite society supremacists labeling on my people, to destroy our communities. Read this, with that in mind; get out of your feelings! I’m about protecting legacy, our history, our women/families! People want to complain that they’re not being protected, this is how you protect US, educated us and break our slave chains!

It was leaf peeping time again, so I put out the normal yearly feelers to see who, of my people, wanted to take a little road trip, and surprise, surprise, city-born people didn’t want to “go look at any F#$king trees. I got trees in my backyard F#@K I need to go somewhere to see trees? What kind of people go look at trees”. While that might seem like an typical answer, and it truly is, “what kind of people go look at trees?” part stood out to me. One lady told me, “that’s just for girls to take IG photos of herself and pretend she likes to be alone in nature for likes”. That person who said that is partially right. If I see unmarried women out in the places I go, they are doing Instagram photos with a photographer they paid for. In fall, you can spot them in a BEIGE TRENCH COAT, NORMALLY WITH A HUGE HAT to match. I saw this a LOT, it’s people copycatting someone they saw on the gram doing it. And I saw a LOT of it, White and Asian girls mainly, and if they didn’t hire the photographer, they dragged some poor schmuck along on this trip to make that man take the pics (simp boyfriend). I saw one get really angry on this last trip trying stage a scene at a famous hotel that had too much traffic in/out. She gave me the DEATH STARE when I lined up to take a shot of the scene. She didn’t pay to stay there and was mad all the people who paid were walking in and out of her photo op. LOL 😚 Goddamn 🤡 But my people are nowhere to be found at such a joyous time, that’s why our mental health is off. Such firm rejection of seeing nature is alarming, to me, when I hear it. You hear such talk and you hear the over aggression of the words and immediately assume it’s men saying “F#$k trees” but of the people I asked if they wanted to get out and shoot, a bunch of WOMEN of color were the ones talking like this. The boys simply politely declined the offer. Most of my male friend who would like to go are dedicated to marriage, so they could not get away for a week to enjoy themselves in nature. To be fair, a couple of dudes wanted to go but only to go find all the single chicks with beige trench coats- this is how I realized what they were saying was true about ladies in beige trench coats, and went to go check my photos for verification. They’re matching the “earth tones” of the scenery. As least they’re leaning into their feminine sides and know it’s time to get out there to see foliage during fall! I like that much, until their aggressive side comes out because they can’t get their IG shots of their faces without people in them (this one lost the hat so you could see her face more). LOL Until recently, I hadn’t really inspected how women of color talked, by and large, and their mannerisms, especially ones from the big city. The ones who were hating on foliage told me “this motherf$#cking N#gga wants to be white so bad! Like Kanye West.” By the same token, this is also women who call their baby daddies and boyfriends “BRO!” and not “baby”, “honey”, “boo”. Those days are GONE! And they’re so not feminine that guys are responding to them calling them “BRO!” That’s disgusting but there is a deeper, darker, criminal link here. My people’s women are trying to be MEN. What Black men are having to grapple with is the overwhelming number of our females who are acting masculine, and are exhibiting a sickness that Sigmund Freud called “PENIS ENVY“. People acting like that are not good candidates for marriage. Bro is short for BROTHER, so why are we recognizing and acknowledging our women of color as men? You want marriage to someone who calls you “Bro”? How can you be romantic and offer up romantic ideas, such as going to see fall colors, with women who want to be MEN and who reject romance- unless you’re a man who likes men or who likes to feel effeminate in your relationship with a woman. Does your race or ethnicity permit your women openly praising mentally and physically abusing men, to empower women like these ones who call themselves “Boss B#tches“? Would your grandfather except this from your Grand mother?

Well, I can see now, many of them are very manly and don’t have many feminine traits, and many say they’ll act feminine AFTER a man offers her marriage.🤡 These are just average, heterosexual women from the big cities of NY and Florida, today, and this got me thinking, as I was quizzed 1000 ways under the sun, over this last trip taken to see foliage. I found myself having to defend Black men, to a bunch of white people, who aren’t racist, but are repeating to me things that sound pretty stereotypical, but they’ve obtained this information FROM BLACK WOMEN! Much of it was along the lines of lack of desire for marriage, and sisterhood propagandists garbage that has pervaded and perverted popular media. It’s bad when a white person tells me that sisterhood propagandists are complaining that a doctor telling our women patients to lose weight is body shaming! I thought the white guy who told this to me was mocking my people, but yes, you read that right, that’s what sisterhood propagandists are doing today, telling our women that when the doctor does a physical on you and tell you bad news, and warns you that you need to be more healthy or else it’s not going to be good for you, sisterhood propagandists want their drones to believe that the DOCTOR IS BODY SHAMING HER! So now, our women don’t trust DOCTORS because of propagandists and many women don’t want to see a doctor now, so they’ll become unhealthy. Seriously, our women don’t want to see doctors now, because they claim they’re all racist and believe there is no correlation between poor diet, lack of exercise and not seeing doctors! 👀 This is exactly what plagues our people, coming up with coping mechanisms and sisterhood propaganda rather than admitting the real problem that exists, that destroys us, and they new blame their obesity on white people. You think I’m joking? On that trip, this older white guy told me was that not wanting a fat Black woman, for coitus, is being racist, as told to him by NPR. I traced it down and this guy was right, NPR was pushing sisterhood propaganda that “NOT LIKING FAT PEOPLE IS RACIST“. This guy was a professor and swore that OBESITY IS LINKED TO RACISM so that explains why 80% of Black women are obese! I swear to God, I was going to punch this guy right in his face for the way he was saying this to me, about my Kweens. This is a HARVARD study pushing sisterhood propaganda and I couldn’t figure out if these white people were laughing at us or not- but I looked it up, didn’t get in my feeling, and his FACTS trumped my feelings SIMPLE AS THAT, the guy was right. That got me to realize that our kweens are out here painting a terrible narrative about themselves, Black men and Black people as a whole, using white publications, and it’s not going to end well for us if this continues. WE have to take back the narrative because we’re looking stupid out here. Meanwhile, popular society is bad mouthing ME for not wanting marriage with someone who believes in nothing but sisterhood propaganda? Really? Personally, I’ve shared on this site about taking bigger chicks on walks or hikes, it doesn’t work, they’re knees can’t take it, their health fails, they have asthma attacks- it’s not good for marriage because you can’t take them with you. The problem stems from old women, pushing terrible narratives about Black men, because these women suddenly want to be mothers at 40 years of age and aren’t finding any takers. And why would you want someone who refuses to be a wife and wants to be a single mother willingly, who thinks THIS is how Black family should be, devoid of a Black father? This is so bad, A VERY DISGUSTING INTERVIEW HAPPENED AND YOU CAN SEE HERE THAT our women are complaining that Black men aren’t giving sperm at sperm banks, which is only a big issue because they have an agenda to destroy Black homes and the Black male image publicly, instead of simply just saying “I DON’T WANT TO BE A WIFE TO ANY MAN!” I can RESPECT a woman flat out saying she doesn’t want marriage, but they will not say this, because then white people, and the world, will see they’re not victims, they’re WILLINGLY being baby mamas and want to be by design! They do NOT have to drag down Black men publicly because no man, of ANY RACE, want them, because they wasted their youths at some job chasing money, or sleeping around without intent to marry. We all have rights to make our choices, that’s what feminism helped create for our ladies, and what you do with that choice, the outcome is on YOU. Going crazy on society, attacking Black men’s characters because Black men don’t want to deposit sperm in a tube at a sperm bank is NUTS! Why can’t they make babies the natural way, with a man involved? Or, are they admitting that they are not wife material, they are not feminine, they are OLD and can’t reproduce, thus they are not suitable for marriage, which is something our WHOLE society of men have determined!? This is not a Black man’s problem, this is an INCEL AMERICAN women’s problem, who don’t WANT educated, loyal, competent Black men. The ladies in the hood don’t have a problem finding men to make babies with, so why are the educated of our women falsely claiming there is a problem just because they’re undesirable to men at this stage in their lives? You play the games you want, but if you lose, you lose! They are turning into INCELS who are mad they can’t get a mate! Go lose weight, get a personality, be feminine and learn to attract a man, simple as the advice women tell men they better go do, if they wish to find a respectable female mate. Or are we not allow to offer equal advice as that told to men who are lonely and can’t find a mate? Are we, as law abiding citizens, who don’t want society to be ruined, allowed to push back against nihilists who want to destroy the very fiber of our societies? This is suddenly anti-woke?

They put out hit pieces laughing at the high number of single, lonely men, and they point the fact at the men being fat, short, and ugly as the reason they’re lonely and that women have NEW STANDARDS on men, so now, they need to take their own words and go learn to be desirable themselves. Well men have OLD MEN STANDARDS of women, and these women aren’t good enough, apparently. Two can play that shame game. See the reluctance to be in a committed relationship by our women? And about that sperm donor issue, you want to know what a criteria for eliminating Black sperm donors is? That he cannot have a criminal record. What does that guy having a jail record have to do with genetics you’re inserting in the cooter?You’re not DATING/MARRYING the sperm! What is she saying about genetics and jail and Black men?! Do you see what these women are doing with the Black male image? They’re trying to link lack of Black sperm donors with the negative stereotype that all Black men are in jail, so there are no good men, which is FALSE, but they help spread supremacy-based negative Black male stereotypes, back on our community, PROUDLY. Is that race loyal? They’re PRETENDING there are no good Black men available in the streets or in the sperm banks. 52% of Black men are single with no kids, so why aren’t these women appealing to this audience? Because they’re angry INCEL WOMEN. There are plenty of Gay men who could contribute their sperm to these women, go bother them- oh wait, they don’t want to donate either! These people are preaching RACIST IDEOLOGY back to Black men! Do you SEE what they’re doing with the Black male image and their campaign to be baby mamas? THIS is destroying marriage in the Black community, not your stupid stereotypes you think about Black men. Our women are trying to do support campaigns to get Black male sperm by force, like they learned from slave owners who had slave breeding farms during chattel slavery. And anyway, Black men know that these women, they donate sperm to, can go to the government and make him pay child support at any point she chooses. Cryogenic banks are COMPANIES, not GOVERNMENT, so a woman can just go demand they turn over your information to put you on child support- little known fact. This, Black men KNOW, thus they don’t go give sperm. THIS is why we don’t do it. You don’t believe, check the sperm banks’ statements, they CLEARLY have to tell you this “However, men who donate sperm through privately arranged sperm donations may have a legal right to a child conceived through their donation. This means this could potentially sue the mother for child custody and visitation. In turn, the mother could sue for child support. Since most states use genetics to determine legal parentage, the sperm donor of a child conceived through intercourse is likely to be considered the parent by the court if no other father claims the child. Therefore, the donor would be afforded parental rights and be obligated to pay child support“. We aren’t that stupid and our sperm is not a commodity, you INCELS! Why can’t we say, ladies, you need to do better to attract a mate? Why is that anti-woke when women tell me this but somehow, women get to tell us all that they find 80% of men to be ugly, fat and undesirable today? And NOBODY is allowed to speak about this? This is oppression by the Patriarchy,… right? Who’s controlling this power?

While comical to hear the retorts to going to see foliage, it is probably why I’ve never found real success in dating with a woman from a big city. Of the people I dated, the best/longest relationships were with women who were not from the inner cities, although they were still women of color. The shortest, worst relationship I ever had was with a NY resident, who was educated, a woman of color with a good job specializing in pushing poisonous ideas to society, disguised as a job. I’ll expound later, but that is her downfall and make believe spirit/lies to make herself feel better about all the wrong she does in life. And it says a lot, when I reflect back on that, of myself and of them. People not from a big city tend to like PEACE, and quiet, tend to respect and protect family, tend to have morals. People from the big cities are rude, obnoxious, impatient, disrespectful, narcissistic, over-confident for no reason, and have no shame. The other day, someone was shaking her sloppy butt cheeks in my face while I ate famed steakhouse Smith & Wollensky’s. I asked her to angle so I’m not in the video she was making for TikTok and she began to insult me heavily. She ignored me, told me to go fk myself and I just looked at the man she was with on that date, and said “bro?” He told me “yo, if you need some straightening, we can take it outside”. GHETTO!!! That was it, she was GHETTO and it’s normalized. Meanwhile, all the white people were looking in shame, thankfully, a Karen complained to the manager about that lady, and then couple looked at me very angrily and the guy said “that’s how people end up dead” – but I wasn’t the one who complained, and they clearly knew this since I was in their eyesight the whole time. All that stupidity, just because I didn’t want to be in their video, at an established restaurant, and because this woman was ready to weaponize her Black, male attack dog, to fight me over her sisterhood propaganda right to wave her butt cheeks in my face because she has empowerment. Do I hate my ladies OR is this something restaurants want to avoid thus BLACK RESTAURANTS STARTED TO ENFORCE DRESS CODES TO CUT THIS OUT???? When I look at her dating life, I see that she is a loud mouth, jealous type, always ready to fight someone, loves drama with a man, loves makeup sex, etc. These are traits that are what we call “GHETTO” and quite frankly, I don’t do GHETTO, although I did live in many ghettos. Being GHETTO is something entirely different, it’s a mindset that many people proudly wear as a badge of honor, having no shame and not considering consequence because there is no consequence. Just the thought that I almost fought another Black man because I didn’t want his girlfriend’s butt cheeks in my face, while I’m eating steak, is SICK!!! Why would a guy put himself in harms way like he did, just to defend someone like that? Guys with life together do NOT want someone like this, but this is the norm, you can’t escape it most times. This guy threatened to murder me, on his way out. 🤦🏾 I don’t want to be HIM, EVER! It is doubling down on ignorance that has penetrated the Black culture, such as blindly defending our women/honor, proudly making rap songs about how many drugs you sold, or how many Black men you murdered, your gang recruitment numbers, or well that’s what most people know of GHETTO. If he tells her she is wrong, she will dump him or cheat on him the get online and claim “Black men don’t defend Black women”, throwing sisterhood propaganda talking points in his face. They use these dumb Black men to perform what is known as “proxy violence”, to make him go do violence on her behalf, so she can be innocent of the crime he commits, and only HE goes to jail, like in this case here in NY. These Black men go to war for their women, they protect their women, contrary to sisterhood rhetoric saying otherwise, and that’s why so many are dead or in jail!!!! That guy from the video is DEAD, and that woman is not in jail, although she caused this whole problem- that goddamn PATRIARCHY again! I don’t want to be him!!! NEVER!!!! It’s not SELF HATRED or misogyny to say that one never wants to be that dead Black guy! Would you offer marriage to such a person who constantly puts your in harms way? There is the female side of GHETTO, which nobody likes to talk about, but is highly rewarded on society, by liberal media. That is always being pregnant by some guy who has no family values, getting pregnant because you like unprotected sex with men you know are non-committal to marriage and will never offer marriage, pretending you have merit when you’re always getting free money/help from a source then bragging about how better you are than someone else who didn’t get that assistance, using abortion instead of contraception as the main method to not get pregnant, always wanting to argue and not keep the peace, and not knowing/wanting how to cook for a man. There are many many more in the list of being GHETTO, and while as Blacks and Latins we always recognized these things as ghetto, it has never been more clear, than in recent times, that there is a direct correlation to how we got his way, and democratic policies that helped shape us all, and quite frankly, it stems for liberal ideology that minimalized the importance of MEN in homes and in our communities. It directly explains why we men don’t want to be in marriage. Marriage isn’t for us because marriage isn’t coming to mind when we look at these counterparts of our who are manly, rude, and have penis envy. Marriage is something you offer a feminine woman. Marriage is something you offer someone you want to be with for the rest of your life, and you’re praying to have a LONG LIFE with them, not to die after a date-night. Marriage is something you offer someone you want to have your own family with, where the kids you two have are from biology of you and your wife only. You don’t get that today, not with these women of color out here today. Most of them are single mothers who had a good time in their youth and made unwanted/unplanned babies with their cutie pie man who just wanted a good time, not to have a baby with HER. To each her own, if you want it, great, but don’t attack good men because YOU want that life- just admit, to everyone, that’s the life YOU WANT. We will attack why this is prevalent, and why men of color avoid marriage to such people, in today’s time. I will present that information because I got a lot of negative Black male stereotyping, on this last trip, and it’s because of things people with white guilt are reading in publications that incorrectly and unfairly pillory Black men, to make our women look good and feel empowered. They’re blaming failure of marriage on Black men, white racism, and slavery by forced obesity, yall. Marriage is a two way thing, how can liberal media dump this on Black men? Because liberals have a HUGE HAND in the failure of Black marriage, and all marriage, in the West to be honest. There has been an attack men on since the 1960 in the USA, and a promotion of women solely. This social engineering morphed into negative stereotypes of my people, since the 60s, and these stereotypes are especially terrible when it comes to negative opinions of Black men- especially surrounding our roles in marriage or reluctance to enter marriage, and were weaponized to make us look inferior, especially by Republican minded folks and racists. Everyone piles on Black men for the inner cities being GHETTO, but don’t understand why everyone is so GHETTO, which is not created by Black men, but progressive and manipulative societies and along with that, a parallel to decline in marriage in the Black community. It’s created by liberal/progressive ideologies, which I’ll walk down slow today, but came to light in the trip I just came back from (I’m writing this in the airport due to a very long wait to until my flight). You see, Black people world wide are having the same problems with ideas of marriage, even though they’re not from the USA, so people need to stop blaming Black men for the rate of marriage being on the decline, and not just with Black people but with world over. Our women in the UK are saying the same things as our women in the USA and each had entirely different histories in separate societies, yet have the same results and mentalities today. You cannot blame this on Black men, this is progressive ideology at work, which run counter to marriage, especially as women get money and education. You have idiots out here who believe in negative Black stereotypes destroying marriage, and completely ignore that the whole world is rejecting marriage more and more, even in countries with arranged marriage. In India, they IMMEDIATELY go right to the problem and call it out, but we want to dance around it in the West. That article there is what’s wrong with marriage today. Even a place as serious about marriage, as India is, in chaos with this disease that is destroying marriage and centuries of tradition. Tradition brought us ORDER, and not it’s a crime to people, it KEEPS STUPID PEOPLE IN LINE, and HUMANS ARE STUPID. Unchecked stupidity leads to unrealistic privilege and next thing you know, you’re social media pressured to trade a true bad guy, war criminal arms dealer of epic proportions (who has tales and movies made about him and who armed many African nations to fight each other with his guns, which lead to millions of Blacks being killed in Africa), for some entitled drug addict Black basketball player (who denounced the USA but has to be saved by USA because our women most up a huge base of the Dembos). 🤡 This is why Black marriage is garbage, the unbelievable reality of seeing that someone who destroyed millions of Black lives gets to go free, for some a loser female who contributes nothing to society. Meanwhile, an “accused” spy for his country, who was a marine and cop, rots in jail. That lack of consideration, for identity politics garbage and entitlement, THAT has permeated the Black culture and created zero-fault, Teflon Donnas, who are bailed out at every turn, while a male just has to rot in his own hell. Do this enough, then people don’t need a man, the Government is always there to be their daddy! To free a lousy drug addict WNBA basketball player just for their Black optics, sex, and sexual orientation, to let the “MERCHANT OF DEATH” free – who’s responsible for millions of Black people’s deaths around the world – is ACCEPTABLE to our lovely ladies. THIS is the core problem for Blacks and Black culture, lack of loyalty by welfare-at-every-turn, enabled and entitled people. So the people annoying me about marriage to such types are clearly not of my ethnicity/race and that is why was marriage has been on my mind recently (chill-pause- not like that). Because I was bombarded with this garbage on this recent trip I took, it was everywhere, like marriage-porn or something. YUCK. See, since, I couldn’t get my people to stop being ghetto, I decided (again) to just go leaf peep on my own, and in doing that, I bumped into a lot of people who wanted to know (without being rude), WHERE ARE ALL THE BLACK PEOPLE AND WHY DO BLACK MEN AVOID MARRIAGE? I plotted my course to leaf peep then hit many walls, as place after place, 1 after the other, hotel after hotel was fully BOOKED and had no empty rooms! I underestimated people, they were out in force this year, since end of July things were booked! I started to panic because I plotted a course earlier in the year, complete with scenic routes, only to find that no hotel anywhere near the damn places had vacancy!  

Because I couldn’t find lodging, I started to panic, as time was running out to find alternative options so I could get to leaf peep and see the most area for the least of amount of pain (hours and hours of transportation, gas, food, lodging, fares). People do leaf peeping and give up after 2 days because nobody feel likes driving to all these places. Fall is one of the most jolly times if you grew up in New England, you’d know that if you just went once and saw that number of families out in the nature, leaf peeping. No way I was going to miss it, so I had to figure out another way to do this. I called up a buddy and she told me to just jump on a foliage tour! WTF didn’t I think of that? Actually, I didn’t know that even existed. I keep going to these places myself, going all over the damn place, planning the stays, and that cost me the same price as the foliage tours that I saw, and food was covered in those tours plus transportation. What the hell!!! 😒 I figured, certainly, those tours go to the same places and you stay in hotels that were booked solid! Man, I added myself to one of those tours so fast, I booked in 10 minutes, closed the computer, and went right back to living life. No worries necessary. I just couldn’t believe all the places couldn’t fit any more people. Living in such a negative city like NYC, I completely forgot there are, in reality, a lot more fellow leaf peepers out there, if we consider the rest of the country, and Canada even. So much so that when I finally joined the tour, I saw scores and scores of other tour buses filled to the gills with people doing the same damn thing, leaf peeping. I had never even seen Bar Harbor, Maine as filled with as many people as I saw when I went on this tour, especially not that late in the leap peeping season. Really odd. Typically, people are gone by Columbus day, but in general, September to October is a hard time to find places to stay near places where there is great foliage turning colors, and because I started going more during the time of the pandemic (and yes I was out there in the trees in October 2020 during the pandemic, and 2021), I got used to nobody being around when I went out there. Now that the PANDEMIC IS OVER (per Biden), I’m outside! Well, all that alone time was over this year, people were back out there fully ready to see some “F#$king trees”. 🤣 Another thing I keep forgetting is that I did a stint in New England when I was young, for school, which molded me in a way where I like being outdoors, but also something else I apparently forgot, a lot of couples used to flood those areas when I was young. It was always a really romantic thing to go see foliage. I knew this but I didn’t remember how big it was for couples. I guess that’s why, last year, a “friend” got a little too romantic for my liking when she tried to kiss me while doing photography of foliage. Such scenes are powerful to be in nature and to see such beauty, it can really overcome you. Another thing I remembered was that people would remind you of the tone, here and there if you kept an eye out for it. You could see things I commonly saw like 2 chairs only, sat out in a staged location Ironically enough, any time I had taken someone to these places, they were ghetto people and they didn’t appreciate it, and those relationships didn’t last. Some people just aren’t like the REST OF AMERICA, and that rest of the America has nothing to do with race, it has to do with things a lot of the rest of us are tapped into, making the most of the seasons and spirit of people during the seasonal changes. Ghetto people aren’t tapped into this, never have been, never going to be… and I just stopped asking people to try to enjoy the rest of Americans do. My friends are just happy to existing their gentrified ghetto neighborhoods drinking in Starbucks in the hood where they drink Pumpkin Spice lattes to get in the mood of the spirit- not knowing that that all comes from upstate NY and the beautiful scenes they don’t want to go to! 🤦🏽‍♂️NY people are FAKE! I’m from where they drink Apple and Pumpkin Ciders at this time of the year. Things like waking up in the morning to see light frost on the hills, seeing bears, seeing deer and real trees that grow where other trees grow freely and not just trees boxed in on a cement sidewalk in front of a skyscraper. Waking up and looking out the windows to see FOG. Yeah, to wake up and see FOG and nothing more in front of you… I was nostalgic going back to those areas that I hadn’t been to in more than a few decades! These NY people wake up to dead bodies they step over while they film themselves on Tiktok heading to that gentrified Starbucks. As I was telling this “waking up to…” list-joke to someone from that tour, a person interjected with “waking up to a wife!!”. I looked at them like, disgusted like WTF ARE YOU SAYING?! BE GONE! 🙄Marriage? Get out of here. Of course, I didn’t SAY that, because I learned this week that I should not express my views of marriage in front of just anyone, in person, because some people still take it deadly seriously and they are completely ignorant of what modern men have to deal with today, and thus don’t understand why a man with his life together would want NOTHING to do with that today. I simply indicated that it was not my thing, and that 1 comment ended up bringing me more questioning than I wanted on the subject of marriage. The funny thing is these people from this tour probably thought I was ghetto, initiatially, based on that answer- actually, some things said to me, even in jest, suggested so, due to people hearing my opinions on relationships today.

Because this is foliage time, I didn’t keep in mind that it’s COUPLES TIME, and that this would apply to the group that came on the tour. I was surrounded by up to 50 different people, from all around the western hemisphere, and I already knew most would NOT look like me, or be from my background, considering that I can’t get people like me out to go leaf peep, even when you show them how to do it for free! On this particular trip, this was very interesting, just about all of the people there were married people, who were all about 30+ years my seniors! You would think that, me, being from depths of hell in NYC, would not be able to relate to any of these older people, many of them from the mid-west and the south of the USA, and Canada, but you would be so far from the truth! I had a blast with these older folks! It was also on this trip that I came to the realization that I am officially OLD! It was a person from this older group who completed the end of my sentence I spoke about earlier of “waking up to a wife”. And when that person said that to me, that person was testing me to see the answer I would give, genuinely interested in hearing what my answer was going to be. That man was hanging on for the answer, his wife peeked over waiting for the answer, and I just laughed. Why were they probing here? These older people were clearly 100% for marriage because they were all married for MANY decades, and yet, they were all very receptive of me despite me being so different than themselves, at least physically and culturally.  The more I hung out with them, the more I admired how they moved in life and the more I watched them operate normally, I was really happy for them, …and for marriage, for THEM! While I don’t think marriage is a good fit for any man in my generation and younger, for men who have life going well for them, this older bunch of couples seemed impervious to the stupidity that most of us younger, established men today have to deal with from mates. They made me feel almost ashamed to tell them that I don’t believe in marriage for myself, out of respect for my elders, and clearly since they believe in it and made it work. I was mostly afraid of looking like a negative Black male stereotype to those non-Black people. As a Black, we (should) be aware of our surroundings and how we are perceived. It is why Black men are cautious about discussing Black life that reference the other half of our group, because their PR is better and you look nuts to non-Black people who don’t know anything about our plight- so you just look misogynistic. Saying anything to defend yourself, as a Black man, is misogynistic, this is why we are at a sick point in life, as Blacks, where openly promoted emasculation, misandry, and character assassination of Black men, is used as an advertised empowering tool for our other half. To even explain or point out documented proof of this is called MISOGYNY! You never know how you’ll be interpreted, so one should always be ready to do damage control. This is the part I didn’t understand when I was younger, I thought I was seen as equal to everyone I spoke to, wherever I was, until I saw the true THEM, in circles with people who don’t look like me. So, here, on this trip, where I didn’t get a sense that I didn’t belong at all, from start, I was very conscious about being judged as a negative stereotype of Blacks and marriage, when I told people that I don’t do marriage. Black/Latino men are afraid to speak up about how we’re being treated. Especially since there are many sisterhood propagandists hit pieces out there today, on major media publications and TV stations (Fox Soul), which all attack Black men for the destruction of Black families, and making women not want to be married. Why? Because I heard a few things said, and even was asked a few things by people to probe how Black people thought today – these people don’t know any Blacks or Latinos. Historically, when people would ask me immediate follow up questions, they were probing to see if I was a Black male stereotype, and here was no different. Pretty much, they were asking questions to confirm things they may think they understand, based on TV or something they read. It’s harmless though, so I indulge them, to clear up people’s opinions of my peoples- that’s why I’m conscious of how my people are perceived. I started to probe them back about all the things I HATE about relationships with people my age and younger, and I saw blank stares because from where they’re from, people want to get married and want to have families and want to depend on each other in marriage. These people are from another world entirely, so I learned that I should tread lightly with introducing them to my valueless East Coast folks with cultural bankruptcy problems. After observing them for a week, I realized that after I saw how easy they made marriage look, and how the men weren’t being emasculated, and the women weren’t being beaten by the husbands, and it made me a little jealous of them, that they likely don’t have to worry about threats of divorce, at their ages. Even my idea of marriage is a little skewed due to being in the ghetto too long, despite me being around both sets of grandparents who were married and died married. But the generation from my mother on? Completely culturally bankrupt. That liberal ideology made that generation after my grandparents reject Black love, reject Black men leading the households, rejected traditional roles of women,… meanwhile, by comparison, those old people had homes, businesses, marriage, kids, grand-kids, and didn’t crybaby about how hard it was to do all of that, all the wives were master cooks, the men sacrificed their times and bodies to provide for their families, and their wives also worked (which is not what current 4th wave feminism garbage tells people exists in those traditional marriages). Well, this is not the 1960s, where their ideas and traditions are from, and some of them didn’t understand how vastly different people are today! The people who did understand the undertone of what I was saying, they chopped that up to city folks living, but today’s stats show that’s actually not true, that’s happening all over the country, and the world, at that. We are 60 years past what they last knew of courting women for marriage. They didn’t even understand that these so-called independent women will not go on a second date if you don’t pay for their entire meal and if you suggested that they go “dutch” to pay their half of the bill! Unfathomable to this population of people, because they aren’t out here with these modern folks. As I started to crack some of their mentals with some of the things I mentioned, some of them started to have “AHA” moments and shared the failures in marriage of even their own kids, mostly, the suffering of their sons at the hands of today’s wives. And when I started to hear more stories like this, I let them know they can’t blame city culture on what they clearly didn’t understand about how women have changed and traditional things of the West are frowned upon. They didn’t even know that many ladies today blame “THE PATRIARCHY” on everything wrong in life and hate most men who didn’t do anything to them. When describing what this attack on the patriarchy is about, these older people were offended, because it is attacking their way of life, is what they confessed. This is when some people understood that there is a war on traditional culture of the West, and it’s not MEN doing this. Anyone talking Anti-PATRIARCHY talk is talking ANTI-MARRIAGE and they’re NIHILISTS!

Quite a few of the older folks made mention of going on many trips and seeing a bunch of older people with them on these trips, but never had they ever seen a man go solo on a trip. They told me they were very curious why I would do that and thought I was, if anything, divorced. They assumed the worst. One guy apologized for “getting in my business” when he was seeking details, but a few of them were a little weirded out by me rolling solo, loving it and letting them know that’s what I promote for men today. In speaking to the husbands of these marriages, they seemed completely clueless about why I would promote going on a trip by yourself (as a man) to places that clearly many other people love to vacation at. 🤔 They were ok with seeing women going alone to trips, women with other women going to trips, men with other men going to trips, but they couldn’t wrap their heads around a man going to trips solo. I let many of the people know what I tell many of you guys, all the time, MY PEOPLE, don’t go to enjoy things that we were all enjoying real-time. I pointed around and told them to find someone like me, or a couple with my features, and they actually tried to take me to task multiple times on that. 🤣 They saw some Indians, from India, and I said “uhm no, even they are out here more than my people, that’s how little my people have love for what millions of people do every year”. The one time they found a Black guy, I’d stop that person and said “hey, buddy, that’s someone who works here in the restaurant, that’s not a tourist”. 🤣But multiple people kept an eye out for things I was saying to them, they were seriously trying to crack this nut that is me. I could see they wanted to ask me further questions that would challenge some culture/racial information they may feel they know, but they didn’t want to broach that topic for fear of appearing maybe racist or something. Some people would preface a question with “please forgive my ignorance but…” before asking going into a certain topic to ask something about non-White culture, because they liked my transparency. After time, some of these people asked me if I was opposed to going and getting me a small-town white woman, flat out. 🤣 That’s clearly not the answer, because based on numbers, and based on any articles you read, we have INCELS because those white girls aren’t showing guys any love either. I don’t believe hype, I get data and stats to move! But some of them asked things and said some things that could be seen as a little ignorant, and 1 lady said she agreed that Black men want marriage but it’s our women who do not, from what she hears from people and what she reads on CNN’s site. She asked me what the deal with minority women was in wanting to be baby mamas and not wives. I saw her husband kind of cringe, but I answered “well Natalie Portman is not Black and she openly promoted being a single mother, and back in your days, the TV show Murphy Brown was a political target for being a single mother. Demi Moore, .. That is not a Black thing, that’s a women empowerment thing!”. They did NOT get it! One answered something like “why does having a job have to do with woman not wanting to get involved in marriage? I worked, we all worked, they’re no different than me” and she didn’t understand that she is NOT like these women today. I quickly realized, “oh, I’m going to have to counter the negative Black man and woman stereotype”. It wasn’t a malicious question, these folks are OLD, so they wanted to know what happened to the breakdown of the Black family or female progression since the 1960s. One lady blurted out in a group “you seem like a polite, educated, handsome guy, so why are you not married by now? Those are normally red flags” putting me on the spot, but they were saying that they couldn’t understand why I wasn’t in a marriage because I was not like the many people (not a stereotypical Black guy thug). I saw they were really saying to me “HEY, I SEE YOU AS SOMEONE NO DIFFERENT THAN US! WHY DO YOU NOT HAVE MARRIAGE TO SOMEONE???” None of it was from malice, I promise you.

I didn’t want to further explain today’s dynamics to them, they wouldn’t get it. I told these folks that most people today can’t even last 6 months as a couple, you think they can survive a marriage?! This lot was genuinely curious about my marriage history though, and just about ALL of them asked me the following questions, in this order, which I get asked a lot:

• What do you do for a living?
• Are you married? / Have you ever been married?
• Do you have any kids?
• WHY are YOU not married?

Normally, when I am asked “What do you do for a living?“, it’s by people who are trying to figure out how to categorize me, so they can know how to know whether or not they should respect me, based on my profession and the amount of money they think I earn in that profession, so they can pocket watch/hate me. They want to know how I could affort to go to places they were in. That’s normally what that question is about. 90% of my encounters with strangers, when I get that question, it’s exactly what I just wrote there. This group was completely different, they saw that I liked things they liked and considered me just like that. They were shocked, and a little disappointed, to hear my views of marriage, and why I didn’t make my own family, because they considered me a candidate to be a good husband to a woman, and provider, and leader. A few even said as much. I would answer that I was not married, never was married and didn’t have any children- which made them springboard into the final question “WHY ARE YOU NOT MARRIED?” In complete disbelief, and I could see they felt bad for me- something I don’t like. Here is where I had to defend Black men, and even cultured our women, because I wanted them to know how progression of females in the world and the liberal philosophy drives some of that; thus, many women don’t feel they need to be married/attached to some man today, because they have jobs now! They don’t understand that part of current-day propaganda is that many modern women do not want to be married unless a man makes exponentially more money than she does, and he must be much taller than she is, spend more time in the mirror than she does, and he must be more educated than she is, but she does not want someone man who is going to be a leader that they can submit to, that’s offensive to women. And I let them know that a man better not expect a woman to cook, that’s offensive to women and women history. They don’t understand that these ladies today will submit to an employer, but not to some man. They kept referring to women dream from a little girl that they will be married, and I told them to go guy a Disney subscription because they only know fantasy too. They didn’t believe me that the reality is women are the reason marriage is down not men, and those dumb stereotypes the liberal media has put out there about men, demonizing men, is what infantilizes women and makes people think women don’t have their own brains and rights to decide that THEY don’t want to be in traditional marriage roles. WOMEN ARE NOT TRYING TO GET MARRIED IN THEIR YOUNGER YEARS, OR EVEN AT ALL, TODAY!!! Women are so protected in the West that nobody can say out loud that women, and their progress, in the women’s movement, are killing marriage! Instead, we have to go blame MEN to pretend that female progress and free will of women, is to blame. I support ANY AND ALL women who wish to detach from the matrix, but I also want THEM to get the attention and HEAT they deserve for abandoning the concept of marriage, and even deserting the families they agreed to protect, via religion and law! We need accountability for women’s actions and progress! If you are someone who hates the progress that our women have made, THEN SAY EXACTLY THAT, but stop deflecting and masking that hate for our women, by attacking MEN for decisions of women who choose to not marry. I don’t stand for people enabling women like babies, pretending like they’re supporting women, because it only leads to women believing those manipulators, normally resulting in SALES OF SOMETHING TO THESE WOMEN BEING MANIPULATED (e.g., Beyonce, Woman King)! Beyonce is married to a guy known to cheat on her (which she likely accepted) yet spreading sisterhood propaganda to poor women that they don’t need men and to be single! That lady sells sisterhood propaganda that is societally reenforced to the tune of billions of dollars, and SHE, like most women, don’t even subscribe to the BS she is manipulating women with! If you’re nasty, you don’t get chosen! DUH! People attack men because they’re too scared to say out loud that they think they women too many rights, and now the social fabric has become unhinged! A man cannot force women to back to the marriage table when empowerment is taught in every institution and in all over media, with the core message to STAY SINGLE AND NEVER MARRY AND HATE MEN. If any many encounters that lady, he should throw her back! Let them go their own way if they want to! Nobody cares! If she has outrageous demands before she will consider marrying a man, I say, let her die alone then! Simple as that. You act right if you want marriage, and you have free choice, so if you aren’t acting accordingly, you don’t get chosen by a man! This is where we are, nobody is holding anyone hostage, everyone has choice, and consequence. These ladies are out here catching bodies, popping out babies before hoping someone marries them by 40, running up the score, while we men are looking at all of this mess unfold in front of us. No man of culture, of religion, of any kind of serious nature, wants a stereotypical woman portrayed and imitated too much in the Black community today, which is on display via popular Black music, such as Meg the Stallion or Cardi B and thot culture. Black men are mostly cultural, protective men, who want a stable family, and aren’t attracted to, nor are willing to bet their family name and fortunes on, disgusting, stereotypical ghetto people who openly brag about how they can rape and drug men but don’t go to jail. You want a daughter to mimic this? No Black man wants this. Women have civil rights, and they CHOOSE to be how they are, and NO MAN should be forced to marry non-select people they find are not desirable, no matter what the patriarchy says.

What I didn’t do was expound on how these stereotypes came to be. I didn’t update them on what the real deals are about how my people go their brains twisted to be as screwed up as the rest of society- but I was quick to let them know that what my people are doing today is NOT BLACK CULTURE, but what we are copying from polite society, in an attempt to look more favorable in the eyes of polite society, to get polite society to stop being racist and bigoted towards Blacks and our American sub-culture. When we started to integrate more with polite society, everything changed, and now our culture has been destroyed. This is the cost of assimilation when we didn’t come to the western world with our culture, willingly. We became second class citizens, from first not even being officially being citizens, not even recognized as 3/5th of a human. So today, to show we are over slavery, over Jim Crow, over Segregation, over Civil Rights, we go above and beyond to appeal to polite society by copycatting what they do, to get their approval- sadly. Here is an example of our women today, saying that Martin Luther King was NOT A GREAT MAN, although her freedom in the USA was accomplished with his GREATNESS. She says this based on a rumor by the FBI to try to smear MLK’s legacy, but they could not produce any proof that said he was cheating on his wife. No women ever came forward to say they slept with MLK, he was under FBI surveillance constantly and there are no photos of ladies with him, BUT our women STILL BELIEVE the MLK was cheating on his wife, thus his legacy is nullified by our women. ALL 🤡s! FBI has taken down many other Black figures with PROOF of them cheating, at the same period of time, yet failed to produce proof of their rumor. Does someone with their mentalities be someone a Black male should procreate or marry? This is a very common sentiment by our ladies who are consumed with sisterhood propaganda. When white people love MLK more than a set of our ladies, that’s a problem! Here’s another one, our folks went to celebrate a movie called Woman King, which is about the Africans who sold all of the Black slaves to European nations, and got rich off of it. You would think that no Blacks who are part of the diaspora would EVER celebrate that, right? Our ladies LOVED THE MOVIE, because there were women in the movie who were warriors in that Dahomey slavery trading tribe and one was a female king. That is our own women saying they don’t care what those African enslavers did, to sell us into slavery, they only care that they were there were tough enslavers who were FEMALES and 1 was a KING from this group. THIS IS MADNESS OF OUR PEOPLE!!! Does that sound to you like proud Black people? That is sisterhood propaganda and how strong it is, their gender trumps race in a America today for these people. That is sickening. You think any proud Black male wants THAT person on their arm? YUCK! And, these are the same people who are steadying to demand reparations for slavery, but are to dumb to know that one of the targets group, to make pay up, would be these Africans who sold us into slavery, the very people our lovely ladies are celebrating in that movie! And it was also written by a white woman, pushing sisterhood propaganda and it WORKED, so now they know they can keep promoting supremacist ideology to continue to destroy my community! And what do our people say to that? “Well I’m here to support Viola Davis so I don’t care”. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤡 We can’t let the propaganda now dictate our narrative. So today, when it comes to Blacks, we lead all numbers in least likely to be married, yet have a bunch of babies and no family, abort the most babies, and are more than double the percentage of other races, because we like to carry and never marry (real data from PEW)- and our silly stereotypes get celebrated by propagandists/liberals, and we’re marketed to for such terrible behavior. We need MARRIAGE to combat this! It says that many our people will do anything to not be tied down with babies or men, and that is a key component of a propaganda, which many simply do not want to subscribe to but it’s being forced on them. Up until 1970s, our women were more married than even White women, in the USA. Surely, if folks want to NOT do that, I completely understand and agree with them, but when the same people talking that they don’t want marriage and babies, turn around and start hating Black men, abort babies like mad, and feel that’s empowerment because of copycatting propaganda that teaches hatred of white men, and then spreads it to the rest of our community, I have a problem with that. Go be alone in a corner and die alone, why infect our community that racism/sexism garbage? If you look at the Census information, facts will inform you how true that is. Our women started to assimilate, and they copied polite society’s brainwashing to turn against building up family and generational wealth, to buck the patriarchy- something Blacks are not responsible for and were victims of, yet our ladies eat that garbage up. WE CANNOT AFFORD SISTERHOOD PROPAGANDA! We’ve had our narrative told to America by our own women who want to destroy us, such as Bell Hooks. She has several books emasculating and dehumanizing, in classic misandrist propagandist fashion, to demoralize Black men, while using it to say whites hurt Black men who turn around and hurt our women. She helped spread the false narrative of domestic violence of women being prevalent in our communities, which is not correct. Women and men commit domestic violence at almost and equal rate as our women, and we know men don’t put these women in jail, so women likely lead more. This is why in it’s LGBTQ communities who lead domestic abuse in the USA, especially lady on lady! A woman can’t speak for a man, but in the Black community we live by MATRIARCHY, we let them run the narrative, and what we see in our communities is the result of it. After gaining Civil Rights, what changed was This (the pill and Feminism) and This (Black Feminism of The Combahee River Collective (1974-1980)) and THIS HERE (welfare reform) and This mostly (race driven Drug war) and the nail in the coffin was DEMOCRATS BILL CLINTON and JOE BIDEN and their ’94 CRIME BILL with Clinton going full GOP kicking Queens off welfare, and then made corporations give special treatment to all women, giving artificial promotion to get women in jobs, even if they weren’t on welfare, corporations got incentives to diversity hire, beginning with women (The Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996). This is the goals 1996’s, letting the Black community fry, while backing only the women. None of this was beneficial for Black men, which is why today our communities are filled with crime and drugs- although, we have more women in college and in corporate America. 👏🏼 Even the Drug War was racist, and largely considered a huge failure, but that’s 50 YEARS OF DESTRUCTION TO THE BLACK COMMUNITY WITH NO FIXES. That’s a full generation and half of Black people affected! You know who they don’t talk about, who revisionist history Blacks and Democrats like to imagine were not destroyed by this “drug war”? Our ladies. Our ladies were also selling and using drugs, and these laws LOCKED UP OUR WOMEN FOR USING DRUGS! I know this issue intimately, I saw a lot of mothers getting locked up. You ask our ladies today, about this, they say it never happened and it was a lie. These are history DENIERS who feel better about themselves by pretending Black hardships never happed- or better yet, the new thing they do, pretend that BLACK MEN ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL HARDSHIPS OUR LADIES FACED EVER! That’s what sisterhood propagandists preach today. 🤡 Yes, they locked up the drug user and the dealer with long sentences because it’s still “possession of drugs”. Notice how NOBODY talks about these women. Because revisionist historians blame Black men for being the criminals in this that destroyed the ‘hood’. How did those drugs and guns get in the hood? Nobody cares. Rather than repair, you have these people chiming in pretending to be clean from those times that wiped many of us out. Only the strongest of us survived, and only the elite will see those pains and heal together from it- but Black men don’t have suitable partners to heal because they’re revisionist historians who never experienced hardship, and they all suddenly have valley girl voices and don’t know of this Black suffering, or American Slavery suddenly. These people, and Democrats killed hopes for Black families with this war on drugs in 94 and then 2 years later kicking people off welfare without a clear path forward- just go get a job was his response, which he did to please Republicans, despite warnings from Daniel Patrick Moynihan that it will decimate the Black community. However, Clinton did change things to get women free college if they have babies and helped push EEO in Corporate America, so education and work solidified not lookin back and was a huge factor that brought women away from families which is still the current issue. What do you learn on campus today? Liberalism and misandry. And after EEO started giving more and more of our women, SPECIFICALLY, economic opportunities, we ended up with a new attitude that now they really don’t need, and actually feel superior to, Black men. What opportunities? Opportunities like this from Goldman Sachs, WHO PROMISED 10 BILLION DOLLARS TO ENSURING THAT OUR WOMEN SUCCEED, GET MENTORED TO CREATE BUSINESSES AND GET PLUGGED INTO NETWORKS. Goldman Sachs is also huge on hiring our ladies as DIVERSITY HIRES, don’t believe, let our ladies tell you themselves. This is due to propagandist SEPARATISTS like Kimberly Crenshaw did, with her oppression Olympics strategy called “intersectionality”, who makes it so that any program to help Black men, is hijacked and MUST include women, meanwhile, there are full programs only so women benefit too, paid for with philanthropic donor and government welfare. Nobody but our women, no black men, no Latinas, no Asian women, no white women, only our women! While I’m happy/proud for them, I personally watched someone into an egotistical AHOLE due to her getting these special benefits when she wasn’t good at her job or pretty much anything really, including being a mother to her kid, but suddenly had a superiority complex because someone gave her a job to meet EEO stats of a company. I watched it develop into self importance and false confidence, and later, she dumped me because her career was picking up. With the opportunities to just get money because you’re a woman and Black, we now see the attitude of the previous decades come back (just like when welfare money was given to ditch responsibilities to men), but with ego, arrogance and pride thumbing their noses at Black men who have been largely kept out of economic opportunities since the 1960s. Hell, Barack Obama made “My Brother’s Keeper” to help Black AND Latino men get ahead, but his Government would not give any government money for it, unlike a program that would be for women, and it was killed by hatefle, misandrist KIMBERLY CRENSHAW with her intersectionality strategy to demean Black men and stunt their progress so that only our women succeed. Why is this important? Because a key problem realized ONLY when talking about Black men’s problem that helped introduce My Brother’s Keeper, was that Black men were not marrying our women. seriously, read in that link there. We are NEVER going to escape this negative Black male and marriage stereotype, despite evidence showing women don’t want it! This is not made up opinions, the Brookings Institute is a respected organization, they’re telling you clearly, Obama doesn’t know any real Black men thus he listened to someone named Bell Hooks and Kim Crenshaw negative Black male stereotypes, which his program was designed to “fix”. These people made up narratives that Black men are physically abusing women, en masse, to get attention their way, so they get money thrown at them. They throw Black men under the bus. The narrative these propagandists ran with was “Black men don’t have money so they beat their women up” and THAT is what most our women believe, and so too does the government and donators who are buying this lie, to give our women the opportunities to get ahead. You would trust this person in marriage, who throws you under the bus to get ahead?

There are no Democrat policies that benefited Black men, just as famous NY politicians pointed out since the 70s. Democrat strategy dictates that they’re banking on empowering and enriching our women only, because they feel this is who wastes a lot of money, thus will save our economy. Seriously, our women are considered the CORE of the American economy. Well that has consequences. All the jobs are going to them, social welfare programs to get ahead, only women can get, so many safety nets for failure exist for them, and today, they’re bragging that they’re winning and Black men are not! That is seriously a sisterhood propaganda that made its way mainstream, if we only give women all the money and opportunity, then America will prosper, as written by multiple propagandist strategists. Liberal strategy was 100% this, since the 60s, and we don’t have any good results due to it, because it eliminated Black men from the family and ruined the idea of being manly men who take care of their responsibilities. These men were made NOT RESPONSIBLE by design, and not even head of the households, they were cast aside with no help, and now look at Chicago, look at Louisiana, etc. DEATH, gangs, drugs, but at least ladies get ahead! Yay! Here are the results of empowering our women in such ways, and the NEGATIVE impact on Black boys. What’s the common denominator? Let’s look at what the data says, from that article above.

Black women and white women raised by low-income parents (those in the bottom 20% of the income distribution) have similar rates of upward intergenerational mobility, measured in terms of their individual income as adults. Black men, by contrast, are much less likely than white men to rise up the income ladder, according to Raj Chetty and his team at Opportunity Insights who have crunched the numbers on 20 million Americans in the 1978-1983 birth cohorts. A third of white men raised by low-income parents end up in the top 40% of the income distribution as adults, compared to only 19% of Black boys. 

So our women get their benefits and they progress at rates similar to white women, and white still progress high but Black men progress the WORST of all. Why aren’t Black men progressing equal to others? Common denominator, as predicted since 1940, single mother households! Data is undefeated. So what do our ladies now say, Black men are losers and don’t build anyway, which can find on ALL sisterhood propagandist sites! White supremacist ideology talked to us by our own! So when these ladies get that advantage, they now punch down at the average Black man, and that’s sisterhood propaganda. The result, the average blue color worker isn’t good enough to date, let alone marry, to the average looking women today. The artificial meddling in Black family life has created a divide, and economic gap that is leading to our women getting ahead and Black men failing- much to the delight of our women! 🤦🏽‍♂️ The middle class is where marriage used to thrive, now, you’re a loser male if you don’t make over $100k at 18 years of age, according to these women today – which is highly RARE. Men are not given anything just for being MEN. Nobody is giving men a job just for being men, the same is not true for the other side of the aisle. Here is an example of what most Black men have to hear today and she demands a lot of things, you’re not a man if you’re not TALL or are SKINNY and you MUST make over $300k a year to even look at her. She is a Blogger, divorce who has 2 kids- 1 other kid died (the first one she had at 17. 2 different daddies for these kids). She is looking for a new man and 1 month from this show, she got divorced. Not someone anyone serious would consider for marriage. 🤡 That woman is the NORM for our women today, unfortunately, and she’s in SEATTLE where there aren’t many Black men. Still, look how disgustingly unrealistic she is, and that show she is on is famous because that’s all that call into that show. Also, she said a KEY piece in that, she is ok with him having other women, but she wants to be number 1 and he cannot have younger kids, and she has to be more important that his kids- she has 2 kids. Do you really think she’s marriageable? Would you put your pension, 401k, investments, salary and other assets on the line for this situation? Everything she hates in men, she IS! Also, if a woman does make good money, she is not for hypergamy where they have to marry down to a man who makes less than her, so they’re full of themselves, but blame Black men for not knowing how to deal with a woman who makes more than them. The demand a Black man go make MORE money than her, despite him not getting any handouts, and when that guy does do that, none of these women still qualify for wife! Our women, like most women today, are progressing and getting better jobs, and they don’t want to be moms and wives and workers, today, point black PERIOD. They don’t want to depend on men, and don’t want to look stupid to polite society for being uncooperative and anti-marriage, so they tell the lies the Black men don’t want marriage, to misdirect on-lookers from the real issue of our women not wanting marriage because they don’t want to be dependent on any man! Our women traded Black culture for propaganda, simple as that. This is why Oprah refused to marry too, and many copied Oprah and her mission to destroy Black males. The Roe vs. Wade debate hit home for a lot of educated our women because they were at the forefront saying that they can’t get ahead if they can’t kill their own babies whenever they feel like, as the articles I posted said. They let themselves be the face of Roe vs. Wade and that was a DUMMY move from being too overly invested in propaganda. If I were a our women, I’d put that right back on polite society, to hell with that. But not our women, they let polite society say that we need Roe vs Wade for our women’s’ sake. 🤦🏽‍♀️They’ve (again) traded in our culture for money. Many of us men grew up watching this from the 80s to 90s, we are not pleased to see this new version in front of us. The media of polite society has everyone rolling with the propagandist trope that oiur women are going to be back in extreme poverty, but that’s garbage because companies are giving them too many opportunities and make up most of the diversity hires we have in the work force, then turn around rub in the faces of unfortunate Black men, the rewards they get for just existing. You cultural people out there, would your ladies do that to your race/ethnicity? They’re going to be just fine! But the media is saying the women have to abort the babies because she has to make money at a job and kids stop her from succeeding in life. When you let someone else control the narrative like this, you’re out here looking stupid to society. Polite society has the old people also believing that our women are overly sexualized sexpots who want abortion to make sure she can have unprotected sex that will create a baby that will hold her back from her career. That’s propaganda telling people you can’t be a mother and have a job, so just abort your kids! So our ladies don’t believe in marriage because of propaganda that gets them to blame Black men for oppressing our women in marriage. THIS is why our women are not interested in marriage. Check the CENSUS trends, from copycatting what our ladies THINK polite society is doing, vs what they’re doing when they get patted on the back for executing propagandist ideology blindly, which polite society isn’t even doing!!!!! Look at this chart!

Our ladies let polite society poison their brains without considering any fact. Our ladies are very emotional and have been manipulated by women who aren’t sexually attracted to MEN but are telling our women to abandon men after making babies with men. More importantly, they’re telling our women that if WOMEN desert the family there are riches waiting for them being alone, with kids- because the government will pay and make sure a man pays money for 18 years, per kid, or he goes to jail! They learn there are no consequences for ladies, only reward. 🤡 Imagine me taking life advice to cut out all women, just because a man who likes men told me to do so- I’d immediately know he is trying to get me to join his ideology for his own selfish agenda. See how dumb that sounds to just blindly follow agendas that don’t match my life? The Roe vs Wade reversal talking points, that our women are using, are told to them by polite society, and our women parrot it all without second thought. I thought that “Roe vs Wade is racist” wouldn’t influence my Queens but I heard 1,000 Liberal news outlets make up excuses for why my Queens exponentially lead all races in getting abortion. These liberal news outlets turned them into HELPLESS VICTIMS and animals who are addicted to having unprotected sex with terrible men who abuse them because they’re careless and can’t help themselves. This is INSULTING to my people. This is how the liberal media painted our Queens when they put out campaigns to say that our women are the worse affected by reversal of Roe vs Wade. The propaganda machine latched on to put the fake RACISM narrative and made Joe Biden promise to reverse the reversal to Roe vs Wade because our women are his main base. This is a FEMALE strategy when trying to pass the buck or deflect shame, to claim that what they DO, THEY’RE DOING FOR SOMEONE ELSE, not themselves when reality it’s FOR THEMSELVES. Meg Da Stallion or this dog-faced YoMyNigha Sanders troll claim they’re doing Black men a favor by not calling the cops on them, when in a dispute, when reality is if they did call the cops, THEY would go to jail- which IS why our women are going to jail so much today, THEY ARE CALLING THE COPS ON BLACK MEN, then JUSTICE is getting served because evidence points back to them! So now 2 times as many our women are in jail as white women, which spiked after female empowerment propaganda and free money giving, which baffles social scientists about our female behavior, give that the government gives the free money just for gender- which is sexism! Women are not being sentenced equally to men, is why more women are not PHYSICALLY in prison, as a shift came to give them lesser penalties, after 2015. In that graph, from a pro-woman site, you will see that are put on “PROBATION” and don’t go to jail! This was the OBAMA PRESIDENCY (2009 to 2017) who made many pro-women laws and incentives for corporations to perform legalized sexist hiring practices that favor women with his “Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act” that says if you’re not physically up for the manual labor job, for example, and you’re a woman, a company cannot pay men, who may be more fit physically, more money for the same job! Meaning, survival of the fittest, and “best man wins” competition for jobs is out the window, for sexist laws Obama made! His first act he signed for for women, bases on the LIE about unequal pay! This is BLATANTLY SEXIST. Jobs were not paying women less just because they’re women, life choices, strenuous labor required, lack of family-time- the wage gap is a lie as told by sexists! And despite his efforts, female imprisonment STILL increased!🤦🏽‍♀️ In fact, also per that earlier link “Though many more men are in prison than women, the rate of growth for female imprisonment has been twice as high as that of men since 1980“. So why would our Queens lines up to promote the false propaganda against Black males in prison as relates to “femicide”? They’re getting KILLED because they’re PARTICIPATING in crimes more! Sisterhood propagandists say that lack of employment for Blacks causes this, but both sexes have increased their money significantly, in recent times, so there goes that stupid theory – especially because our women are abusing men at equal rates today despite having more employment. These are lies to say Black men are abusing women because these men don’t have money and women need to be liberated to get jobs (LIBERAL SOCIAL ENGINEERING). But our Queens buy the liberal lines of “Black men are killing all the our women and beating them because these men have no money”. Then explain why our females are more violent today than ever and make music celebrating it?🤦🏽‍♂️So why do our ladies let polite society to convince them that they fight for abortion rights on BEHALF OF OUR WOMEN? Our ladies eat that up and bond over this! Roe vs Wade was racial in it’s inception, but not like YOU might think. The “ROE” in the Roe vs Wade is someone who got to use a fake name in court, under the guise of being a rape victim, who got pregnant due to being raped by a Black man. Her real name is Norma McCorvey, a White woman, who was in them streets giving it up despite not having financial means to raise a child– so she made up a racial lie that would get her an abortion, using the hatred of Blacks by Whites in America as her support system. 🤦🏽‍♂️ That galvanized the racists who then supported abortion for her, in a state where it was illegal already, because she knew that her people hated Black men and would believe the stereotypes that stats didn’t support. She was a LIAR and a BIGOT doing what she did, she had no shame, and this is what Roe vs Wade really represents. America, not wanting the country to hate her if the truth got out then, made up lies that RACE was not the VICTORY despite millions of abortions they denied prior, that this 1 special woman was so special that RACE was not a factor in her case. WTF EVER! 🙄What Black Queens would support such a law given that history AGAINST BLACK MEN??? I’ll tell you who, someone who gets paid by the government for any failure in life and who now feels she doesn’t need Black men. So why let America put abortion on Black people like that? I mean, my people have the highest maternal mortality rate who why risk even her OWN LIFE to be on those streets giving up cheeks? And there it was, the lady they praise so much wanted to kill her kid because she wanted to get a good job one day. I’m not talking about being pro-choice or not here, who cares what you think on that issue, I’m talking about people who don’t want to be serious about a man in their best years, who believe marriage is so bad they have to never have a husband controlling them, who doesn’t want to develop herself to be a wife, nor was raised to be a wife and have no inspirations on this, who just wants sex so bad, that instead of contraception, they’ll go as far as to kill their own kid? On top of that, they only want to get married when they’re OLD LADIES. This is why 1 in 4 men are marrying into sexless marriage! Why would a man want to get with some woman who wants to trap him in a sexless marriage because she’s burned out from being in those streets all through her 20s and 30s and who gave her best years to bums, so her ability to pair bond doesn’t exist from high body count? Studies have always shown that if you get with some woman who has had more that 10 sexual partners (high body count), the likelihood of divorce is very high. What man wants to go into a marriage where he has a high likelihood of divorce? This is what’s wrong with people today and why I don’t want marriage. Our ladies are not our ladies anymore, they’re clones of popular society, they’re not recognizable anymore, they’ve copycatted silly propaganda and nobody wants to marry into that. So when someone tells me to go find a white girl instead of our women, that person sounds STUPID to me. Actually, one of the old people asked me if I wouldn’t date a white girl because of the history of White and Black people in this country. That’s not it, I’ve dated interracially before. My hesitance was exactly what I said here, our women didn’t create the propaganda so many so blindly follow because they’re trying to be men today. This is a terrible consequence of being mindless followers for pursuit of power, which is a very unattractive trait that no men want. Polite society is not doing better than the Black population in marriage. Yes, our women are the most baby mamas out there, but comparable to polite society getting married and then divorced, it is the same result, just without the loss of huge amounts of money being lost by a Black man. If WILLING PARTICIPANTS decided to live this way, there is no victimhood nonsense here! These people are not STAYING married as long as these older people I met, so I’m not going to fare better just because I switched up the race. Stats don’t lie. However, though, I know I can go to pleased like to leaf peep with a lady from one of those small towns, but not the same type of lady if she lives in NYC. Just know that. Out women didn’t make a scathing declaration “THE END OF MEN“, polite society did! Culture should win out over SEX, but it does not in African Americans females, they’re trying to emulate a fringe portion of polite society, which is why we are culturally bankrupt and our communities are in shambles!

When it comes to ALL MEN in the West, the American Dream is based on marriage, to have a spouse, 2 kids, a house, white picket fence, dog… that’s RARE today, so why are Black men getting blamed for the failure of marriage? Since more men are single, than women today, and men are having sex exponentially less than women, the American Dream is DEAD for most men today, regardless of race, because of many evil forces out there ensuring that straight men, of good intention, who desire a traditional family with values, will not find suitable wives for marriage. No wives, no marriages, no American Dream! Men understand this simple issue. Female empowerment says they can have sex with whomever they want, without judgement, and without consequence because they can always just go kill their baby without consideration of the father of the kid. Also, it teaches them that men are not important, so you can procreate with just any many, quality of a man is not required because an empowered woman can get a job or just go on Onlyfans to sell booty. 👏🏽 There is no repercussion for failure (again) for such ladies, so they don’t have to pick carefully anymore, unlike in the past, and these old people didn’t understand this. These old people pointed out that most women don’t make more than $40k, and they’re correct, but you can’t tell our Queens that their jobs and that money doesn’t make them so empowered that they don’t need to rely on a family. Trying to explain this to people who depended on each other to get through in life, and love each other because they had to do this together, is just futile. These old people were right about something they said that be considered insensitive- they said our women want to be baby mamas because it’s cool. I had to think about that a second because well.. that’s what the media has put out as a story too. See, a lot of these older people were liberals and whatever CNN and MSNBC tells them, they believe. They have some sort of GUILT or something, that’s why they believe our women are all victims. Our women don’t want marriage and haven’t since progressive movements and the propaganda, just like the stereotypes, blame Black men- and make it look like as a consequence, our women have to be, should be proud to be, baby mamas??? Crazy! My grandmother would never believe like these old peoples don’t, and would not approve of me bringing home a lady consumed with trying to show up me, be men, not be feminine, not know how to be a nurturer for her family, etc. Black men don’t want to NOT be in the home, don’t want to NOT be important to a family, to raise their kids and to protect their homes. Black men don’t want to be baby daddies! When you say this to people, they don’t believe you, unfortunately, so let’s walk through FACTs about this. I had a similar discussion with a young lady I was chatting up while in New England recently. She was not Black but we talked about my marriage/children status, and I was offended when she wouldn’t believe that I did not have children, because of how she was saying it. She believed stereotypes because she has our female friends. She told me she reads a lot of posts by our women that says they’re being deserted by Black men. I asked this girl if she dated Black men and she said no, but admitted that stereotypes prevented her from dating interracially, especially after reading all the posts by angry sisterhood propagandists. I asked her to describe the men her Black friends procreated with, and she had nothing to say but bad things. When I asked her if she would ever see herself dating these men, as a white lady or a Black woman and she said ‘HELL NO!!!!!!!!’. DUH, STUPID! So she refused to see that all of her friends pick the moron with swag who isn’t serious and has many red flags in being a real man who would take care of his responsibilities. So she blamed all Black men for these loser, cool dudes that women know better than to stay with but love to lay with. These were the bad boys. I got the number of another lady, on the same trip, but this time a Black woman at my hotel, who also didn’t believe I wasn’t a baby daddy. That was a very frustrating trip, but clearly outlined the Black men have a very bad image out here! I had to point out to these women, a number of things that I outlined here, because I have these conversations a lot, in defense of Black men who have no kids, earn decent livings, and haven’t done anyone wrong in life to themselves or anyone else. I find myself combating negative stereotypes of Black men, a lot, lately, and apparently not NEW ones, they’re all OLD stereotypes. As I told more and more of these older, married people that I never participated in marriage, I could somewhat feel judgement in some of that questioning. None of it was malicious in intent, but I know that stereotypes are what they are for a reason, and unfortunately, what a lot of people don’t understand is that things that were historically a negative stereotype of Black and Latino/Hispanic men, is very COMMON for most other modern men in the West. Propaganda has penetrated society in the worst ways, because it’s on a 4th wave that the first people who created it, and waves before it, do not agree with. It’s sad to see that one of the greatest modern day scams was pulled off by propagandists. What I wished I could explain to the traditional, older folks, is that even something like this Black Lives Matter movement was filled with anti-marriage propaganda and was blamed on Black men. There is NOTHING BLM is talking about that benefits Black men!!! They used the death of Black men being killed by police to blind everyone to the real propaganda that does not benefit Black men, which is why it broke up. People saw through it and deserted it because it was only there to promote LGBTQ+ agendas. To use Black suffering to do this is disrespectful. I had to look up who created this movement and it was LGBTQ+ our women and men! Did you know this? It matches the mission statement though, but it was a scam from the beginning. Those leaders stole MILLIONS OF DOLLARS to have luxury parties and to buy mansions in Beverly hills, on the back of dead Black men that nobody cares about. The original Black Lives Matter mission statement never sat right with me when I first read it, which is why I never supported it, it exploited dead Black men who are not the real focus. Take a look at the language of the mission statement from Black Lives Matter (BLM MISSION STATEMENT), which has since been removed from the BLM site but was captured in many writeups supporting BLM like the one by University of Central Arkansas: 

Ask yourself, what straight Black man, is calling for the abolishment of the nuclear Black family. What Black man wants this? What Black man doesn’t want to have a family where he is important in it? Who wants to participate in a traditional custom of marriage, with someone who rejects everything about tradition and is over-consumed with agendas that don’t benefit he or his woman? What does that have to do with police brutality on Black men? Black Lives Matter promotes single motherhood and elimination of Black fathers in the home! Black Lives Matter doesn’t support Black husbands to our women, who raise strong Black families! BLM supports baby mama creation! Black men don’t support this garbage messaging. They want FAMILIES. This is why I oppose marriage today, because the only condition for modern women to marry a man is to use him and dump him when they’re done with him, take everything he owns, take his kids from him, and then they can return to be single mothers who go into old age by themselves. This propaganda is actually ideology and Black Lives Matter took that rhetoric from there. BLM is Anti-Black Family and Anti-Black Marriage involving a heterosexual man, and this poison has propagated to the Black community. How can you be with a woman who supports BLM given this, given the scamming and using straight men’s death to put their agenda in secret? That’s disgusting. So this propagandist socialist and liberal ideology, while great for the groups it focuses on, destroyed the Black family, and the government KNEW THIS. Let’s start with a very key study performed by Daniel Patrick Moynihan. Moynihan was our Democratic politician in New York from 1977 until 2001. Democrats commissioned him to study why the Black family was failing despite the social engineering the country was performing on them to “better” us, which is known widely as THE MOYNIHAN REPORT. Moynihan came back with an honest review that said “our Democratic policies, and other liberal ideology, are destroying Black families and ensure that the Black males fail and while Black males are doing better, I can’t explain why all these our women are getting on welfare in droves despite this…” to paraphrase and summarize the report. He said this in 1965, all of which came true in today’s time- thanks Feminism and Democrats! Moynihan said that Black male unemployment was lowering, but couldn’t explain why our women were increasingly getting on welfare despite that, the opposite of what women of other races/ethnicity were doing after their men obtained better employment, when a family wouldn’t need welfare when they have employment increasing. This contradictory finding is called the “Moynihan Scissors”, and he didn’t understand that Black culture was DEAD and our ladies traded culture for welfare dollars and feminism that would promise free money and many opportunities coming their way.   Democrats destroyed Moynihan for pointing out the progressive ideology continuously destroy Black families with their policies that only favor our women, and Democrats DOUBLED DOWN on the social manipulation of the Black community, getting women to trade family for government sponsorship to not have a family that includes a Black male. Other propaganda groups began to say that Black men were destroying the families and that more women should be without a man, just to make babies and get paid by the welfare system. Those groups wanted our women to be victims, to beg the government for welfare, which means Democrats get VOTES and future VOTERS. The welfare system was originally designed to pay women whose husbands had to go off to work a long way away from home, for long periods of time, and thus could be considered a WIDOWs. Well, if women historically wanted welfare, they’d have to claim to be a widow, which meant they were to prove there was no man in her house with her kids and herself. That is the policy, which carried over to today. Fast-forward, our women were coached by social workers to claim to be abandoned by Black men, and this old widow clause would be applied to them to get that welfare money. That same woman cannot tell the state what else she was doing like how she had a good time one night with a stranger and that’s why she was a single mother, or that she liked tall playas with swag and had their babies without commitment, or that she was tired of the dad of the kids in her home and wanted to switch him out for a new man, or that she just wanted to be a single mother, etc- so on paper, the stereotype that stuck to all Black men was that “Black men desert their families” and that “Black men are physically abusive to all our women”. Reality is very different, that shows women are equal to, if not MORE PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO MEN. And in lesbian/bi-sexual female relationships “The CDC also stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners.” What if you want to get in on the welfare scam and need a good story to tell in order to get welfare without being questioned or denied, in addition to receiving free shelter, what will you do? LIE! That’s what you’ll do, LIE on Black men. Police reports didn’t even corroborate these dumb claims that our women were being abused like they claimed. It was all scam to get welfare, and people were coached by other scammers and even social workers to say this. They didn’t care HOW that made Black men look. In fact, if you want to talk about how’s doing all the domestic violence, go look up the stats. The stats never added up to the stereotype of men, and that has been outlined by many reputable institutions. It’s BS! The top 10 states with high domestic abuse rates are ALL RED STATES, states that do not have big Black populations. But this propaganda against Black men carried over from these bogus complaints about lazy people desperate to get free welfare money. 

Then, the other problem with people being slaves to welfare money was welfare abuse was happening. This is what Ronald Regan was inaccurately pointing to when he was attacking welfare queens. Due to that Widow clause, if our women wanted that free welfare money, she could NOT HAVE A MAN LIVING IN HER HOUSEHOLD! This is key to the destruction of the Black family. The government welfare case worker agents actually used to go to our women’s’ homes to do physical walk throughs to ensure there was no man living in the homes to ensure that Black families didn’t get any welfare aid, only our women with a pile of kids allowed to get that free money. This is widely known as the “man in the house” rule of social welfare programs, which included rejection of housing benefits for women if they had a man living with them! It is clear how women traded Black men and Black family for welfare money and it was government supported! This is what explained the Moynihan Scissors, along with other popular propagandas that tell women to hate men, and to reject roles of being wives! Our women abandoned the idea of family in the last 60s, in reality, this is backed by study, statistics this is FACT! This became our culture, welfare mother culture, as the Black household is still today a matriarchy and has been for more than 5 decades in the USA, with women claiming they don’t need a man! The worse part, these women are largely convinced that they would be better off as unwed baby mamas than to be wives! In fact, they want to change the narrative to be looked at more favorably as unwed moms so the Black men deserting the family is a bullshit narrative when female progressive propagandas are instructing women to desire to be unwed mothers. In fact, Black men don’t respect this culture of baby mama propaganda and want WIVES/FAMILIES, so much so that Black men do not even want to give their sperm for women to get IVFs, and there is a Black male sperm donor shortage, because most Black men don’t want their babies out there if they cannot tend to them. Mind you, the sperm banks (aka Cryobanks) pay $500 a pop and STILL Black men don’t want to donate sperm to make kids they cannot tend to. The sperm banks are going on college campuses trying to recruit young boys to give sperm, this is how bad this situation is. Black men weren’t abandoning our women, and families that they made, in numbers that matched the stereotypes, even today with all the hookup culture and dysfunctions in dating. Today, census numbers will show that 53% of Black Men neither have ever been married nor have had kids, which is the highest percentage of men in the country. 34% of Black men are married, most of them to our women. That’s 87% of Black men who are not responsible for making all of these single Black mothers, and 70% of our women are single mothers in 2022. That means 13% of men, Black and other races, are responsible for creating 70% of these single mothers, yet the stereotype of all Black men is we are deserters? The numbers do not add up to make this stereotype true for most Black men being deserters! Also, the women getting artificial insemination like crazy today, and investing in freezing their eggs, which also accounts for the rise in single mothers!!! These women have been cultured to desert making a family with a Black man, or just many men today. Is anyone focusing on these women bowing out of marriage to be baby mommas and spending tens of thousands of dollars to back this unwillingness to be wives or coupled with a man? The lies that most Black men are making all of this ghetto madness is sickening and I hate this stereotype being applied to me. We have the data, we have the numbers, women are doing this to themselves, and due to their own choices to not marry before they carry, or deciding to go at it alone willingly, bucking traditional roles of women and rejecting marriage themselves! Freedom of choice is what they are exercising, it is fully their rights to do so, feminism helped support this, and it is time to put to rest this bullshit stereotype of Black men deserting our women and their children. Those worthless pretty-boys they meet at the club, who have many women pregnant, that 13% of men that all the women want in those dating apps, THAT is who they’re freely choosing to pro-create with, and they’re willing to share that guy despite his repeat impregnator history and him being involved with other women simultaneously. Women want men that other women want, it’s a very disgusting flaw. It’s one thing that the best guys get the best catches, that’s life, but that women just want to get this guy for his looks before other women can, or while other women have him and don’t care, that’s nasty. These women want those guys and not the majority of Black men who are not acting cool and irresponsible in life. Personal choice!

I just had to put his out there because I hear the garbage about how Black men are terrible in relationships, are against making families, all this garbage and people don’t understand how our families were destroyed due to US Government policies, and also liberal ideology, the PROOF is out there and has always been out there. That our women at the hotel didn’t want to hear me and the proof. She asked me for the proof, I showed her a video on the Moynihan report, and she said she doesn’t believe it. She completely ignores that whole point of the Moynihan Report, in fact she didn’t even know what that was until I showed her, but you know what she did believe? PROPAGANDA THAT EMPOWERS HER. She doesn’t care about Black family and generational wealth. She thinks her job will make her rich and her kid will be able to inherit millions one day, that a father isn’t necessarily important AND she thinks that some man with money is going to come along, marry her, and willingly be a step dad. People without kids, who are younger, are barely marrying, but not wanting to admit that this lady screwed up her life with a bum dude, this lady doesn’t understand anything about how men think, and especially Black men. This is the problem, they follow the propaganda but do not know see that there is no climax to their pursuits other than being alone and lonely. That lady was 38, it’s too late to talk about how she is so hot at 38, almost 180 lbs, 5’4″. Disillusioned. And the problem with marriage is this lady is exactly what so many of us have to hear brag about how great they are and how much money she has. Nobody wants this kind of terrible catch. Then they have to deal with the bum guy who is the baby daddy too? No way. This lady didn’t want to hear ANY thing that is counter to the nonsense she believes, nothing that can take away her false empowerment. This lady said all our women were getting physically abused and get on welfare, ALL OF THEM on welfare had this happen. She said all Black men were jobless so our women couldn’t depend on them and had to go their own way- completely ignoring how Blacks were destroyed under Slavery to Jim Crow and didn’t get options until much later after Civil Rights. These our women are revisionist historians. They are blaming Black men for not being rich right after Civil Rights has to FORCE America to give equal rights to Black people. People like her believe change happens over night and suddenly Blacks with inferior finances and schooling would suddenly be in corporate America or be entrepreneurial in mindset, after years of being made to be inferior. What race traitors we have in our midst’s and we’ve known this since forever and blaming Black men for poverty is disgusting. This lady was single because she doesn’t want to be lead, she doesn’t want to be submissive, she only wants to settle with a man who has money so that if the relationship fails, she and her kid by some other man will be financially well off for her failure to secure the marriage from divorce. She knew that man she made babies with was untamable; she knew he was with other women; she knew he would cheat over and over, and knew he wouldn’t be a good father, still she chose but want to blame more men. She continues the curse of our people, yet blames all men for the failures to secure men who simply refuse to own their responsibilities. This plague has been with us for a very long time, and many news papers explained what was happening since even 1991, in women’s’ own words (Washington Post).

THIS is why I am not for marriage; this person was not marriage minded and was completely comfortable with being a baby mama and was empowered to be one. Why would I want to give up travel, having fun where I want, when I want, to be taking care of the child of some loser man and poor choices in life? I don’t reward bad behavior; I don’t support the welfare system out of my pockets! The American Dream is dead for most men, and I want more guys to get away from that garbage if there isn’t someone trying to submit to them, someone being feminine in their presence, and most importantly, for guys to get their money together and go travel! Why would anyone want complete loss of all assets, children and sanity when the other half just decides they want to leave, which his 70% of divorces are brought by women, and among only educated ladies, 90% of that group bring divorce to a man, and INFIDELITY is not anywhere close to the top reason. In fact, women are just as much likely to cheat on a man as a man on a woman.😒 After people reading all that sisterhood propagandists propaganda on good Black men, which is actively being promoted in all top news publications today, the demonization of the majority of Black men who are just minding their businesses and don’t care to participate in marriage, is crazy. I cannot defeat stereotypes that have been with Americans for half a century when you have your own people actively promoting the propaganda against you. Why would any man with means want to be somewhere he is not respected, where his fortune will not go to his offspring and WIFE but to some unwanted child of another man, and a woman who deserted the father of that child? Who wants to pay for Democrat policies that destroy Black families that began in 1975, as an attempt to get government reimbursement for the free welfare money they were giving out to baby mamas as a result of the Aid to Families with Dependent Children welfare program. Child support is mostly paid by men and it’s a scam by the government to ensure that men pay money and if not, they’re going to jail and will lose their employment/careers. States like California are clear that they keep large chunks of that child support money so it’s always been scheme to get paid for poor decisions. Texas collect $9 in child support for every $1 spent in aid!  So your child would not even get all of that money! The anger this lady had stems from her father paying child support and she not receiving enough to buy Mercedes Benzes when she was young. Well, maybe her mother should have chosen better? Maybe a man should not be considered just a good time or a paycheck, and this is coming from someone who is NOT conservative in the slightest! The promotion and celebration of fatherlessness is a disease in the West.  I’m not a parent because I understand the dangers of a single parent home which is well documented . We men also understand that although this silly propaganda is affecting our Black queens, the realities of telling women to go be baby mamas while also working a full time job is psychotic and could only have been dreamed up by someone who doesn’t have kids! No sane person would CHOOSE such a life. And now, we have a lot of moms crashing out of life, getting high micro-dosing on drugs because they can’t handle being a parent and working.

Given all of this, would you want to be complicit in this nonsense and to be blamed for this because of your race, or would you rather jet set around the world? Tough decision, right? Would you want to be judged and avoided in dating for marriage because someone believes the negative Black stereotypes of 1960? What needs to be known is that Black men and women have their own agencies, and each has the freedom and brains to choose whatever paths they want to go in life. Today, it is very clear that women have very different mentalities with regards to marriage, and the Disney fairytales that people used to believe decades ago are largely gone. Today’s women are wanting to be sexual promiscuous and then when they’re 40 years old, want to start to look for marriage. Good luck with that. 🤦🏽‍♀️Most women in the West are statistically going at motherhood alone, many proudly, some marketing it as a CHOICE, because it is a choice, THEIR CHOICES- but most are mistakes from sexual promiscuity, thus the whole outcry about abortion rights. As said earlier, many want to do IVF to be a single mom rather than be shacked up with a man. It proves the point that men don’t just leave these ladies and responsibilities, women are the ones leaving primarily. Women leave for BS reasons mostly, and likely have “grass is greener on the other side syndrome”! Today, we call it the “HUSBAND STORE“. We have “No fault divorce” just because a person, mostly initiated by women, should just be able to walk out the door just because they feel like it on a given day, despite making vows and not being violated by their spouse. The fact of the matter is that Black men, even myself, would rather be more like these older folks I recently met, than to be like the majority of my friends who are divorced and ruined entirely, or those who are not getting gray divorced by their old woman who wants to leave them broke at 70. Black men would rather be out there traveling with their wives or families, and the numbers clearly support this claim. However, Black men cannot shake the false stereotypes that are shown to use at every turn, especially now using our women’s’ anger via social media propaganda and networks like Fox Soul. So yes, our women are complicit in creating the negative stereotypes of Black men, and I heard this from non-Black people, who got it from publications with works written by sisterhood propagandists. That woman at the hotel, she should not have echoed the stereotypes, because wasn’t the classic chick for the streets, so that really surprised me that she was using the same silly talking points of the propagandists She also threw out another new narrative that our women don’t want to marry Black men because most black men are broke and have no jobs, also false, which the department of labor stats prove. So the general consensus is that Black men are not marriage material and cannot support having a family. Well, if Black men are not marriage material and our women don’t want to marry them because the men can’t sustain a family, then why are 70% of our women making babies with those 13% of men who don’t want to commit to them? This is the dumbest things I’ve heard ever heard. Why would anyone make a baby that couldn’t be taken care of by these guys they claim are so broke that our women would never marry them? This is why I want Black men to get away from all this negativity, go to see the world, go build with likeminded people, and don’t bow down to pressures from society to make us conform to negative stereotypes. Not many people care to understand Black men, even our women themselves, and that’s fine, we just want the stereotypes to END given the data freeing us of the stereotypes. As I get older, as I admitted, I started to become envious of these strong, older couples that were traveling at the same time. There should be more Black men out there doing all these things that all the other men of the world are able to do, with women of their own races as well. There is a certain power in doing that and pride, that we too are part of this civilized world.

Alas, I’m quickly brough relief by the fact that, well, men of other races, my generation and younger, are ALSO not out there with wives doing what these older married couples were doing either. Oh and just so you know, most of my Black male friends don’t agree with my stance, they want to be in stable marriages and are mad that there are not many suitable candidates to dedicate their lives to. I think they need to just let it go. You cannot support marriage in a society that promotes the emasculation of men, while demanding strong, traditionalism of men to provide protection, while continuing to push the narratives that men are useless and highly necessary because you’re so vulnerable without them. Anyone with the belief that the patriarchy needs to be dismantled, is also talking about dismantling the male as the head of a household, which is why people who believe this do not want a man in the household and would rather promote a fatherless home. You see how that worked out for Black people? You see this gang culture from women not picking proper men to procreate with? You see all these good Black men with great income today and still our females don’t want that guy they STILL want the same knuckleheaded morons who are the bad boys/cool idiots? You think this is a new trend of ladies? No. This is Western women, modern women, this is how they behave and it only leads to destruction of family, due to lack of family and cultural values, which marriage used to help guard against. You take the importance of men out of the equation and you have the chaos you see today. These women, and their bonehead selection of men to procreate with, are why we have high crime in cities and my innocent people are getting killed and robbed by the offspring of these culturally bankrupt morons and their carelessness in family planning. These people aren’t their reproductive failures are why my people still have these negative stereotypes still lingering today, despite most other races and ethnicities doing the same activities. Blacks do it worse, because it has more fatal consequences, so the stereotypes stick. These advanced women have jobs and degrees, so that means that Black families should be rich by now because she can go get a good Black man with equal stats, but she will not! She will make up propaganda that there are no good men left. 🤦🏽‍♂️Anything to not be married to a man who demands respect from his wife, and more importantly, anything than to be in a role where she would be held accountable for her actions and inactions. It’s the same welfare queens mentality evolved, they want to keep the money all for themselves, they sell out culture all for their own advancement, and this is the propaganda come true, using our women as the dummies to execute the tests first before applying to the rest of society. These people believe children do not need a father, only a mother, and that stats prove that the crime rates soar, murderers increase in numbers and socially inept boys who cannot navigate society exponentially increase in numbers, due to mother-led homes because a women cannot raise a boy into a man. She makes him effeminate to go pander to women when he grows up, then he gets destroyed by women, realizes his mother set him up to fail, and then gets Red Pilled. She doesn’t know how to raise a man so she lets the streets and school or hard knocks have at her boys. Anyone who will never have respect for a man, does not respect him in the manliest position a man can take, as a husband, a father and a provider, does not deserve marriage and should never be offered it. Being a man is not causing other harm, protecting what you love, building your family and community up, and this MAN is being called “toxic” in today’s time. These women are raising men not fit for marriage, just to be dominated like girls, and the men they need for marriage, they’re avoiding until they can use him like a guard dog, use him so she doesn’t look so pathetic by herself, or for his finances. Well, most of men with means have awaken today, and don’t care for marriage with today’s women in the West, which is why so many are going outside of the country to find a foreign women not from the West- or just avoid women altogether. This is why Asian women are the top preference in dating apps where White women are the most numerous on the apps! Think about that for a minute. With marriage to modern women, what do you get for your sacrifice of your life from people who refuse to even take your last name? When you have issues in your relationship, as a man, you know what never happens? Nobody gathers around and tells you that it’s OK to leave your family because that wife does not give you the tingles anymore. Nobody tells you, as a man, that because she isn’t making $200k a year, you should leave her. Nobody tells you that because she reached menopause, she’s not as good as an 18 year old, so you should leave her. There is nothing but shame for a man to desert his duties to the family and the marriage. You have to stay and deal with it and suck it up. No man tells another man to go divorce that lady. On the other side of things, when a woman doesn’t feel good, all her friends and online consultants on social media tell her to IMMEDIATELY LEAVE that marriage, first thing they suggest is this, because they’re all miserable and want you to destroy your lives like theirs. You tell me, who is more serious about marriage given that reality. That is why men today are not even considering marriage, men are too serious about marriage, we have too much to lose, and too much responsibility to some person who doesn’t respect us and never will. We don’t want to be prisoners of marriage and it’s just another institution that transfers wealth away from serious people to people who just sit back and expect hand outs, just like all other forms of welfare! 🤷🏽‍♂️ They’re getting paid out there, just for showing up, and they’ve sold out. As people who came from oppressed backgrounds, to have one doing well and rubbing it in the face of their less fortunate, what oppressed race/ethnicity would act like that? I just showed you who. I started that intro with the 9th century story of Basilius the horse trainer and Michael III the Byzantine Emperor. Michael blindly gave Basilius all the power and benefits just for rolling with Michael. Basilius was gifted everything, had many favors done for him by Michael, without question, without asking, without Basilius earning anything, just blind faith trust from Michael to ensure Basilius reaped the rewards of of Michael’s prosperity. All those freebies and favors and gifted power made Basilius thirsty, greedy, and now he wanted power he felt Michael had, so he could have it all for himself, irrespective of Michael’s role as emperor. How did Basilius satiate this greed and thirst for power? He showed up and watched as his soldiers surrounded and stabbed to death, his dear friend, emperor, and BENEFACTOR, Michael. Then paraded through town with the severed head of Michael, on display for all to see, and took the throne for himself. 🤦🏽‍♂️ If you give humans everything and anything they want, they’re greedy, they’ll ultimately destroy you with their privilege, and toss you under the bus to gain their power and greed. – “Never put too much trust in friends”#2 in 48 laws of power! Michael THOUGHT Basilius would be grateful for all he did for him- ERROR! Michael didn’t realize greedy, power-starved people, are history revisionists and will completely ignore your history together in their quest to be alone with power, and do not have the sense of gratitude that you think they should have since they were gifted everything from riches to educations to power, from the government, and didn’t earn anything by their own merits, as Basilius didn’t either. This is what Black men are being told we are losers for not wanting marriage with, a Basilius, whose soldiers are the USA government and police officers, there to bleed you dry while Basilius watches with pleasure. There is nothing pro-Black about these folks today, and they surely aren’t Black enough for me, they’re sellouts to jobs, like they were for government welfare in 1975, sellouts to their own greed and unearned power! That’s why Black marriage is on the decline, these people aren’t Black, don’t want to be Black, and have no loyalty to being Black- they’re Blackness is an inconvenience to them. People like Passport Bros are not trying to find other DATING options, they’re trying to find WIVES, who remind them of great women of their pasts, their grandmothers. People born after the Baby Boomer generation will never find women who could equate to the women of the past, that’s gone, nobody is going to look at their mothers and grandmothers as any of us did the women in the greatest generation and silent generation. There isn’t anything remarkable about today’s woman, although they think their JOBS make them better than the women who GOT US HERE today! 🤡 The reluctance for stable men to marry today’s women, is telling them, YOU ARE NOT THE GREAT WOMEN OF THE PAST WHOM WE ALL RESPECTED AND ADMIRED. These people today are NOT the women many Black men died fighting for Civil Rights, to protect. Most of these people today are Civil Rights deniers, and history revisionists who reject the achievements made by Black men to get us ALL Civil Rights in this country, and those women only believe in the Title 7 addition about “sex”, which isn’t put in there for them, it’s put in by White women for white women! Representative Martha Griffin did what first wave women’s rights women did, to make sure that no Blacks get MORE rights that white women. Don’t believe me? Listen to Martha Griffin say it in her own words, even with transcription by C-SPAN, HERE.This is how women’s right split, because Black women supported them until white women got racist. So when people say that Black men HATE our women, today, I offer that they’re just a bunch of crybabies who have lost the only people who truly did support them, after abusing men for the past 60 years, and it’s chickens coming how to roost for our women. Is it a self hate issue for Black men? NO! Black men are facing what White, Latin, Asian, Native American men are facing now that they’re finances are together finally, there are very few suitable WESTERNIZED WOMEN available to marry. It only looks racial because Black men date our women primarily, same as all other races and ethnicities, so they’re speaking from their experience, which is about our women! All men are saying the same exact things, it’s just that white people are judging Black men for now saying what whites men have BEEN saying about white women. Everyone is in disbelief given that history of Blacks in the West, that our ladies would become what they are, oppressors of Black men by help of a government who hates Black men anyway, as hinted to by Moynihan, which is why Black men still haven’t received help from the government since that report. The people studying Blacks conclude that our women are not culture loyal, and clearly demonstrate that many folks were only out for themselves- where is Oprah’s program to help Black men? Where are the the ladies only programs to help whole Black communities? You will not find this, the only things they do is ensure our females get ahead. This is what Black men are waking up and seeing, and the pushback they receive for waking up is from Black men not allowing our women to walk all over them anymore and now they’re stopping their silence on the terrible antics that has destroyed the Black family, at the hands of our women and the US government and US corporations. The many sexist favors given to empower, only feeds female greed for more power, and for them to be dominant not equal, although that’s not working out as they planned either. They’re lead by agendas that aren’t pro-Black PEOPLE, and are married to their corporate jobs/money, where, once again – on code for them- they’re only dedicated to something that lets them know they’re easily disposable after they’ve been used up! Some people never learn. B1.

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